I was thinking about how to structure the amount of songs we listen through a break up process, yeah, we keep them on our mp3players to the office, to the gym, to grocery stores, in the car, just everywhere with us.

Some of us we will try to avoid some sort of music that remainds our lost partner, some others will try to listen to them until our eyes runs out off tears (could be therapeutic). Some of us will try to listen songs with some motivational content, etc.

I want to pass through the hall process, that´s why the Group Part 1 of songs are for trying to rip it off that pain from our chest, and yes maybe cry, maybe feel anger, maybe want some sweet revenge (just keep it as therapeutic form to move on not in other way of revenge please), maybe others for forgive them for the pain they made us, etc..

The Group Part 2 it would be for songs to overpower our lessons learnt, to put our feet on the ground again well recovered, to support our self-esteem, to raise again...

Feel free to add your songs, and to comment any of them, maybe this would become a STICKY for everyone :)


GROUP 1 Songs we listen

1.- Fuel - In my hands
2.- Pearl Jam - Black
3.- Stone Sour - Through the glass
4.- Jack Johnson - Fstop blues
5.- Hootie & The Blowfish - Let her cry
6.- linkin Part - In the End
...

I also have Black by Pearl Jam on my sad sad cry C.D. some other good ones are (Blurry)by Puddle of Mud , (Here with out you) by Three doors down , ( How's it going to be ) by Third eye blind and ( It's been awhile ) by Staind.

Hi missing
Seeing as you mention "Puddle of Mud" how about their hit " She Fu*&in Hates Me" :-)

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Hi missing
Seeing as you mention "Puddle of Mud" how about their hit " She Fu*&in Hates Me" :-)

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Lol friend, great song also

Blurry such a power song, I used to believe in that!

Candlebox - You
Guns n' Roses - So fine
Hootie & The Blowfish - Goodbye
James Blunt - Goodbye my lover
Toad The Wet Sprocket - Crowing (this one is powerful too)
Rod Stewart - My heart can't tell you no (but it will soon) ;)
Pearl Jam - Dissident
...

Ok here's a few

Bonnie Tyler - Total eclipse of the heart
Robbie Williams - Feel (not sure if he's big in the US)
Michael Jackson - She's out of my life
Celine Dion - LOL anything she sings is sad :)

Delbert McClinton - I Don't Want To Love You Anymore

REM- Everybody hurts

Wake Up Call - Maroon 5
I don't want to be in love - Good Charlotte
I hate everything about you - 3 days grace
Forever - Papa Roach
Loving, touching, squeezing - Journey
Whatever - Godsmack
Tear away - Drowning Pool
Fine again - Seether
How's it going to be - Third eye blind

Everybody plays the fool - Main Ingredients
Stuttering - Ben's brother
Best I ever had - Vertical horizon
The scientist - Coldplay
Tattoo - Jordin Sparks
Sorry - Buck Cherry

Third Eye Blind - How's It Going to Be
Third Eye Blind - Farther
Third Eye Blind - Goodman
(and a lot more by them, I think I love the band too much)
The Shins - Turn On Me
Joshua Radin - The Fear You Won't Fall
Sum 41 - Pieces
Johny Cash - I Still Miss Someone
Franz Ferdinand - Auf Achse

I have a few more to add

(What Hurts the Most) by Rascal Flatts

(You'll Think of Me) by Keith Urban

(Wasted Time) by the Eagles

(These Eyes) by the Guess Who

(Laughing) by the Guess Who

Wasted time is a great song... When you mention the Eagles I always remember the last track on Hotel California , do you remember "The last Resort"

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Wasted time is a great song..............When you mention the Eagles I always remember the last track on Hotel California , do you remember "The last Resort"

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Yeah I remember it... Great song the Eagles are the $hit

Same lyrics but harder beat if you like that stuff...

TSOL-Being In Love
TSOL- Wash Away
TSOL- Darker My Love
TSOL- Flowers By The Door
TSOL- Sedatives
TSOL- It's Gray (lyrics are good the beats a little stupid)
Subhumans- Curl Up And Die
NOFX- She's Gone
NOFX- Linoleum
NOFX- Leave It Alone
NOFX- Happy Break Up Song (this is a little dirty)
Green Day- Pop Rocks & Coke
Green Day- 80
Green Day- Stuart & The Avenue
Green Day- F.O.D
Green Day- Stuck With ME
Green Day- Only Of You
Green Day- At The Library
Green Day- Don't Leave Me
Against All Authority- All Ages Show Tonight
Against All Authority- Best Enemy
Anti-Flag- Angry, Young, And Poor

Like I said, a little punk-ish but the meanings are good. Those are some of the songs I listen to during break ups/depression/sadness/etc.

If You Are Going Through Hell - Rodney Atkins

Missing You - John Waite

One the other hand, there is this:

I will watch you in the darkness
Show you love will see you through
When the bad dreams wake you crying
I'll show you all love can do
All love can do

I will watch through the night
Hold you in my arms
Give you dreams where love will be
I will watch through the dark
'Til the morning comes
All the light I'll take you through the night to see
A light showing us all love can be

I will guard you with my bright wings
Stay 'til your heart learns to see

"All Love Can Be", Charlotte Church

"Somewhere down the road"
"Weekend in New England"
"Looks like we made it"... all by Barry Manilow (yes I know, but don't laugh)
"You are everything" by the Stylistics
"Everybody Hurts" by REM

Now however I'm in a healing stage so I find that I'm listening to songs more along the line of:

"Freak on a leash" by Korn
"You oughta know" by Alanis Morissette
"Violet" by Hole

Looks like I've gone from one musical extreme to the other dosen't it. :D

Baby Come on Home- Led Zeppelin
Ten Years Gone- Led Zeppelin
Wish You Were Here- Pink Floyd
Pieces- Sum 41
Hurt- Johnny Cash
I still miss someone- Johnny Cash

Stone Sour:

Through Glass

I'm looking at you through the glass...
Don't know how much time has passed
Oh, god it feels like forever
But no one ever tells you that forever
Feels like home sitting all alone inside your head

How do you feel? That is the question
But I forget.. you don't expect an easy answer
When something like a soul becomes
Initialized and folded up like paper dolls and little notes
You can't expect a bit of hope
So while you're outside looking in
Describing what you see
Remember what you're staring at is me

Cause I'm looking at you through the glass...
Don't know how much time has passed
All I know is that it feels like forever
When no one ever tells you that forever
Feels like home, sitting all alone inside your head

How much is real? So much to question
An epidemic of the mannequins
Contaminating everything
When thought came from the heart
It never did right from the start
Just listen to the noises
(Null and void instead of voices)
Before you tell yourself
It's just a different scene
Remember it's just different from what you've seen

I'm looking at you through the glass...
Don't know how much time has passed
And all I know is that it feels like forever
When no one ever tells you that forever
Feels like home, sitting all alone inside your head

And it's the starrrssss
The sttarrrsss
That shine for you
And it's the starrrssss
The sttarrrsss
That lie to you.. yeah-ah