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  • Sep 25, 2007, 08:45 AM
    kenmore
    Everyone any idea
    Please,give me idea,my birthday will come next month,my wife told me if you could find another girl I'll let you have sex with her so I'll love that but I don't know who I can find
    Please,give me idea thanks a lot
  • Sep 25, 2007, 09:14 AM
    me_
    Wow that's weird
  • Sep 25, 2007, 09:19 AM
    Foxy459459
    Now if you're a smart man, you will NOT DO IT! How could you even think about having sex with another woman that's not your wife? That's not only sick but disdurbing on more then one level. Don't you think your wife is testing you in some way? You should tell your wife that you don't want to have sex with anyone except for her! She should be the only woman that you want. Your treding on uncharted water becareful. Don't do that its not right!
  • Sep 25, 2007, 10:07 AM
    shatteredsoul
    Just a thought, even though she SAYS she will do it, doesn't mean she really wants to. I mean who are you going to find and how do you know she won't be pissed if you really do find someone? Just think about it. Why not just take her to a strip club and see how she likes that. If you haven't done it before, I would be hesitant. I mean you are both adults but that kind of stuff can ruin a marriage really quick. MAybe take her to an adult toy store or something... don't just expect her to screw some girl because she says she will
    There are plenty of other things to do to keep it exciting..
  • Sep 25, 2007, 10:22 AM
    kenmore
    We had been at trip club and adult store she like it. She is fisrt my girl friend and I'm fisrt her boy friend too.when we marriage we still virgin ( nerver have sex before).we marriage about 8 year, so she say se not test me she want to join also.that's why I'm ask about help.
  • Sep 25, 2007, 10:43 AM
    GlindaofOz
    Well I don't know what kind of help you want from us. This isn't that kind of website.
  • Sep 25, 2007, 11:26 AM
    Foxy459459
    If you want to find someone else to join in to your bed with you and your wife you are looking on the wrong web site for that. You need to think of the negatives that can come out of this.
  • Sep 25, 2007, 02:58 PM
    princessrose949
    Personaly I think u should have a threesome or a foursome. I'm pretty open minded, but if u want to see what its like to have sex with someone else try that
  • Sep 25, 2007, 03:00 PM
    princessrose949
    Either that or start playing with sex toys and such, maybe have her dress up in a sexy costume and do role play, keep it exciting. I say this because the man I have been with a year, me and him have different scheduals so over the weekend when we actually have time to spend together. We role play and stuff and keep things intresting. Sex never gets boring
  • Sep 25, 2007, 03:53 PM
    TRISTE ET SEUL
    I want to give my man a threesome too.I told him that if the cubs win the world series I would. I have done it before and yes I do agree that it does mess up a relationship. I lost my husband because of a three some he cont to date the girl behind my back. My problem was that we did it w/ someone we both knew. Good luck to you. Some perople can handle it, but if either of you are the jeealous type then you shouldn't do it cause it will come up in fights.
  • Sep 25, 2007, 07:29 PM
    americangayboy
    WATCH OUT!! A lot of people think the idea of a 3-way is great, but in practice become jealous and it shatters their self-esteem. If you really want to do it, make it as impersonal as possible. The last thing you want is your wife getting jealous and then finding her information saved in your email account/phone or her showing up.

    I want to reiterate that I think this is a bad idea. People who can make swinging work are people who are comfortable swinging. If either of you have never done something like this before, I think you should leave it in the realm of fantasy.
  • Sep 26, 2007, 06:04 AM
    Foxy459459
    I don't think he is talking about a 3-some I think he is just talking about having sex with another woman! And that is so so so so so a BAD IDEA!
  • Sep 26, 2007, 09:37 AM
    kenmore
    Thank you very much from your guy gave me a lot idea.I have think about.. this is not good idea for sex with another woman.
    Foxy459459 you're right and I'll tell her I want sex with her only because you're my wife.
  • Sep 26, 2007, 09:48 AM
    Foxy459459
    You're a very smart man! And I have to give you a lot of respect for coming to that decision! Remember you got married for a reason, and that reason was because you wanted to spend the rest of your life with your wife and only your wife. I hope you and wife have a long and wonderful marriage...
  • Sep 26, 2007, 11:44 AM
    kenmore
    Foxy459459 thanks ! :) email me: [email protected]
  • Sep 26, 2007, 12:56 PM
    csquared
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by kenmore
    please,give me idea,my birthday will come next month,my wife told me if you could find another girl i'll let you have sex with her so i'll love that but i don't know who i can find
    please,give me idea thanks alot

    DON'T DO IT
  • Sep 27, 2007, 10:30 AM
    smoothy
    If you need to ask then I think you already know what the answer is.

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