Im in love with a married man , and I know I have no future there but I still can't do without him, The sex is great but I'm becoming possessive and demanding , How can I over come this? He loves his wife and family, but I know he's not leaving them for me. Yet still I know there is no hope and still can't prepare my mind mentally to depart from him, we have a good thing going but its not worth it in the long run.

Remember that he is married. That you have no right being possessive and demanding. Think about the pain that this could cause his family. Put yourself in the wife's shoes.

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Originally Posted by Tuscany

Remember that he is married. That you have no right being possessive and demanding. Think about the pain that this could cause his family. Put yourself in the wife's shoes.

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What your doing is not fair to yourself, and his wife and if he has children that's not cool at all. And if he is cheating on his wife with you, 10 to 1 if he ever did leave his wife he will cheat on you as well. Any married person that cheats on there spouse is a loser. They have no right at all. I don't understand why some people even get married in the first place. You need to walk away from that situation. Because when his wife finds out, because she will they always do, she is going to prob flip! Put your running shoes on girl friend and find yourself a real man!

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Originally Posted by Foxy459459

What your doing is not fair to youself, and his wife and if he has children thats not cool at all. And if he is cheating on his wife with you, 10 to 1 if he ever did leave his wife he will cheat on you as well. Any married person that cheats on there spouse is a loser. They have no right at all. I dont understand why some people even get married in the first place. You need to walk away from that situation. Because when his wife finds out, because she will they always do, she is going to prob flip! Put your running shoes on girl friend and find yourself a real man!

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Thanks, will certainly take your advise, as hard as it may be, but I will follow my heart.

I don't think you will regret it in the long run. Be good to you, and never let a man take advantage of you. Because remember something when he is sleeping with you he is going home to another woman. And that is not fair to either one of you.

The only way to get over it is to find someone else that's not married. There are plenty of men out there that are single. True there are fewer as you get older. But depending on your age there are significant numbers that are available.

Trust me in that I'm a guy, I'm married... if I wanted to be rid of my wife I'd divorce her. The fact he hasn't speaks volumes.