I need the name of a movie that takes place in an Asian country. A women is married to a wealthy man and is his first wife. She has to do everything her husband tells her to do, she is rich but is treated very badly, and can not leave. She meets a western/ teacher, falls in love and can not do nothing about it. The end is when a bomb or war tears her home apart and she escape and runs off to this man in this wonderful countryside. Please help!!