OK, I am 14 ( yes young for a bf)
But all my mates are going round talking about how good they're relationships are with there bf's and do get a tad jealose.

In my life I have only really liked 3 guys I am good mates with two of them.
I need some advise on how to get some guys attencion because I am lonely.:(

I know it sounds strange but I am.

Anyone recommend anything to makeme girlfriend material. :confused:

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Originally Posted by shizukamelodi

ok, i am 14 ( yes young for a bf)
but all my mates are going round talking about how good they're relationships are with there bf's and do get a tad jealose.

In my life i have only realy liked 3 guys i am good mates with two of them.
I need some advise on how to get some guys attencion because i am lonely.:(

i know it sounds strange but i am.

Anyone reccomend anything to makeme girlfriend material.?:confused:

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Ok, first off... how do you see yourself? To have a good relationship you need to be happy with who you are, and comfortable- know yourself. Know what YOU want, and what YOU want out of a guy. Do not seem needy, or change your routine for a new guy... fit him in your existing schedule- that's a problem many girls make. Needy girls are turnoffs. I have a lot more... let me know. But a good girlfriend is genuine, and happy with herself... when you are happy you make others want to be in your presence :)

Well: I see myself as a unique person a bit of a nutcake.lol.Sweet, lacking a little in confudence.I think I am more mature than the girls in my class. I am rather tranquil normally.But I can be a bit of a tomboy at times. I get along with the boys and they treat me as a boy sometimes I have to remind them I am a girl!lol.

Well that tomboy part of you can come in handy later on... I think that if you gained a little more confidence the guy you were going after would be wondering why you don't like him. Find something you're good at and perfect it... when you get to a good place everything will come together.

What kind of things do you have in common? Invite him out casually- maybe with a few other friends. Remember: things only seem like a big deal if you make them a big deal :) good luck!

Just act yourself. Don't try to be someone your not... and if you really like someone... don't be afraid to ask them out... you'll never know what might happen until you try!