Hey I'm 15 years old and am having erection problems. Me and my girlfriend have just started having sex and its been difficult. We have to use foreplay to get me erected,usually oral pleasure. After I'm erected it usually doesn't last that long after I put the condom on. Its not that hard to get an erection because I usually get them kind of often when were foolin around,I have on and off days it seems.Im freaking out because 15 year olds aren't supposed to have to take viagra already :eek: . Im really confused and could use any help. Thank you

You are right. Viagra are not candies for you, young man. Know what, there really is no need to worry about erection during sex at your age. Any guy could tell you that they had the same problem too when they were young. Also, though I am very much pro usage of barriers, there tend to be more difficulty maintaining an erection when wearing a condom due to lack of sensation.

Hi,
At 15 yrs old, you really, really have a lot to learn, and this is one place that can help. Take it easy, and don't worry about it. You are just starting with one of the greatest pleasures of all; and it won't happen overnight.
One thing you might think about and your girlfriend, too, is:
At least 40% (that's almost half) of all girls in the United States are pregnant before they are 20 yrs old.
Years ago, that was "unheard of". Now, it's a fact.
Another fact: Using a condom does not mean there is a 100% chance she will not get pregnant. Think about it... you are not 100% safe.
You want to be a Daddy at 15?? Got a job? Got your own apartment?
What are you going to do when she gets pregnant?
I do wish you the best, but you are heading for trouble.
fredg

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Originally Posted by fredg

Hi,
At 15 yrs old, you really, really have a lot to learn, and this is one place that can help. Take it easy, and don't worry about it. You are just starting out with one of the greatest pleasures of all; and it won't happen overnight.
One thing you might think about and your girlfriend, too, is:
At least 40% (that's almost half) of all girls in the United States are pregnant before they are 20 yrs old.
Years ago, that was "unheard of". Now, it's a fact.
Another fact: Using a condom does not mean there is a 100% chance she will not get pregnant. Think about it......you are not 100% safe.
You want to be a Daddy at 15??? Got a job? Got your own apartment??
What are you going to do when she gets pregnant??
I do wish you the best, but you are heading for trouble.
fredg

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Seriously do you not think he has thought about all of that already, he has a girlfriend, a hige number of peple are in his situation, I don't think lectures will help to be honest

There's a lot of things I could/would say.. but I am not your parent.. only thing I can say is.. safe sex all the way.. anyway... but my idea is.. maybe your used to having sex so don't have sex for awhile and see if that helps... I heard that sometimes guys get TO excited and can't get erect... also you can get lube.. like KY jelly warming sensation and what not to help with that.. make sure you can use the lube with condoms though.. sometimes some lube will make the condom break and what not...

This is not a lecture but just remember like someone said above condoms are not 100 %. Are you sure you are ready to be a father?