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  • Sep 21, 2007, 07:21 PM
    pretty27
    I'm worried!
    Is that 100% true?If I didn't had a sex for 6 years,with the other guy.Is there possible to be tighten my hymen again.Eventhough that my past relationship,were always making out and having sex with my Ex Boyfriend? Please respond thank you!!
  • Sep 21, 2007, 07:32 PM
    macksmom
    If when you first had sex your hymen didn't completely tear, it is possible for your hymen to grow back again. Some women are born with holes in their hymen at birth, so some women never even completely tear the hymen and can have sex normally.

    Why does this worry you?
  • Sep 21, 2007, 07:37 PM
    shygrneyzs
    So you asked this before and must not have liked the answer. You want your current bf/fiance to believe you are a virgin. Is he is virgin? Do you expect him to be a virgin? Why should he expect you to be a virgin? Or have you told him you are and you are really not?
  • Sep 21, 2007, 08:21 PM
    star3114
    Is it your hymen that you are interested in tightening or your vagina? You can tighten the vagina by doing kegels. This will give you a lot of pelvic muscle tone and allow you to do some really neat tricks while having sex.
  • Sep 21, 2007, 08:29 PM
    Fr_Chuck
    From your other post it appears you had sex many times over a year with your boyfriend, so you are not going to be a virgin again, if you wait 30 more years. If you want to lie to your new boyfriend and say you are a virgin, most likely he won't care or know.
  • Sep 21, 2007, 08:29 PM
    macksmom
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by shygrneyzs
    So you asked this before and must not have liked the answer. You want your current bf/fiance to believe you are a virgin. Is he is virgin? Do you expect him to be a virgin? Why should he expect you to be a virgin? Or have you told him you are and you are really not?

    Well now that I read your other post I see why you are worried.

    But you really don't need to be... honestly I don't think a guy can feel weather or not you have a hymen still intact.
  • Sep 22, 2007, 02:26 AM
    MayMsredrose
    Did not get what you said... can you give more info.. thx

    Ms. Redrose
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by star3114
    Is it your hymen that you are interested in tightening or your vagina? You can tighten the vagina by doing kegels. This will give you a lot of pelvic muscle tone and allow you to do some really neat tricks while having sex.

  • Sep 22, 2007, 01:20 PM
    star3114
    When you do kegels, you become very aware of your pelvic floor muscles. This helps not only in child birth, but also when you are not bearing children. There is a kegel exercise they call the butterfly. Basically you can squeeze and release... squeeze and release, etc. You do this while a guy is inside of you... it gives you very interesting sensations and will blow the roof off them. This is especially true when you do it after they orgasm... when their member is most sensitive. If you want to be naughty, you can squeeze your pelvic muscles supertight prior to him entering... and he can't enter... or while he is in... and he can't exit or move. It is actually quite amusing. You should try it. Google kegels for various info sites.
  • Sep 24, 2007, 09:36 AM
    smoothy
    Don't lie... just tell him you aren't a virgin. I've never held that fact against a woman, I would however if she lied to me about it.

    Honesty is the best policy, Lies only breed mistrust..

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