Ok... a couple of days ago, I called my boyfriend and wanted to know if he wanted to go catch a movie with me. He declined, saying that he already was out with a couple of his guy friends who I really don't get along with. Anyway, I called my best friend and we both went to a pizzeria. While we were walking down by my house, I saw him in his car with his "female friend" and they seemed quite close. I really don't know what to do... my friends keep telling me to just confront him, but what I think is going on really isn't?

Don't confront him. There's nothing he can say that will satisfy you.

Teen boys are not good about things like this. You can be upset at him for not having the strength to tell you the truth, but that's about it.

Don't try to pursue him - that'll only make matters worse. In fact, if you do your best to keep your distance from him, that may very well attract him to you. Teen guys are like that.

Really!

Hi,
Is he really your "boyfriend"? I really don't think so.
Leave him alone, and don't call him, don't have any contact with him whatsoever.
Let him make the next move, and call you; that is, if he really wants to.
In your relationship with him, did you both agree to not go out with anyone else? If so, your "boyfriend" is over you!
Meet some new people, find someone else. There are boys who don't play these games.
Best of luck,
fredg

I really love him! I can't just let go, but I'll take the advice just ignore him until he makes a move. We've been together for about 6 months..

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Originally Posted by Wowzers

Ok...a couple of days ago, i called my boyfriend and wanted to know if he wanted to go catch a movie with me. He declined, saying that he already was out with a couple of his guy friends who i really don't get along with. Anyway, i called my best friend and we both went to a pizzeria. While we were walking down by my house, i saw him in his car with his "female friend" and they seemed quite close. I really don't know what to do...my friends keep telling me to just confront him, but what i think is going on really isn't?

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Well you should talk to him about it and tell him what you saw and to explain what was going and you should tell him if he really loves he wouldn't lie to you..! And if he lies then he must not love you and also if he tells you the truth you can think about what's going to happen in the future

Well, my best advice is that you should confront him if its bugging you, even if you won't get a stisfying answer, you will still be able to know that you told him and you know whatever answer he gave you as an excuse. But when you do confront him be very casual and calm about it and don't seem like you're attacking him, than it will turn into a huge fight.
My best answer is to confront him and see what he says.
Best of luck!