Let me start by saying that have met this guy on the fourth of July he has a car, job, OK looks, sweet I guess. And he's 19 soon to be 20 on octber 1st. He's a great guy yes we have had our troubles and fights but sometimes I feel farther away after one of the arguments. And suddenly last Friday I got a call from a old boyfriend and I was so happy to hear from him because I could'nt remember the reason I had dumped him. But then that night I remember he had 3 kids and a baby ma ma and other girls besides me. So I did'nt mention it to him about how I remembered but he said he's a changed man and I had some proof to show that he really did change and now he wants to be my boyfriend. What do I say? I really have deep feelings for both of them. So what would you do? Both dudes are equal in everything about them so what do I do?

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Originally Posted by darnyell

let me start by saying that have met this guy on the fourth of july he has a car, job, ok looks, sweet i guess. and he's 19 soon to be 20 on octber 1st. he's a great guy yes we have had our troubles and fights but sometimes i feel farther away after one of the arguements. and suddenly last friday i got a call from a old boyfriend and i was so happy to hear from him because i could'nt remember the reason i had dumped him. but then that night i remember he had 3 kids and a baby ma ma and other girls besides me. so i did'nt mention it to him about how i remembered but he said he's a changed man and i had some proof to show that he really did change and now he wants to be my bf. what do i say? i really have deep feelings for both of them. so what would you do? both dudes are equal in everything about them so what do i do?

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Take a step back. It sounds like you need some "you" time to evaluate your choice. Explain to both guys that you like them very much, but are confused right now. Tell them you want to let it cool down for a while and just be friends. Also, if you don't want to do that, just go with your heart. The old boyfriend sounds like he has a lot of excess baggage. Don't mess up a good thing for a guy who has a bad track record. Does he support his kids? If not, drop him! My advice is to take some time and think about what will make u happy. It's normal to still have feelings for an old flame, but don't let it cloud your thinking. You have plenty of time to date so don't rush it or stress about it. Hope this helps?

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Originally Posted by darnyell

let me start by saying that have met this guy on the fourth of july he has a car, job, ok looks, sweet i guess. and he's 19 soon to be 20 on octber 1st. he's a great guy yes we have had our troubles and fights but sometimes i feel farther away after one of the arguements. and suddenly last friday i got a call from a old boyfriend and i was so happy to hear from him because i could'nt remember the reason i had dumped him. but then that night i remember he had 3 kids and a baby ma ma and other girls besides me. so i did'nt mention it to him about how i remembered but he said he's a changed man and i had some proof to show that he really did change and now he wants to be my bf. what do i say? i really have deep feelings for both of them. so what would you do? both dudes are equal in everything about them so what do i do?

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Well it sounds like your confuse about what to do well if I was you I would take time out to think about what you want and when you want then maybe when you have had time on your own to think you can start to get what you want I hope this helps you to choose good luck!