I was only 15 at the time and my boyfriend at that time broke up with me we were together 3 years and it still bothers me I'm 27 now and in a bad marriage and now I find my shelf wanting him back or to at least see if there is something there?

I think that it would nt be such a good idea to try and rekindle something that happened such a long time ago. You really don't know this person anymore, I mean, your probably not the same person you were back when you were 15... people change. Also I ve noticed w my past relationships that its easier to think back on something you had, and only remember the good things. Don't forget about what the reasons were that you broke up to begin with. If your not happy now, best thing to do is move forward not back.

I think you are feeling this way because you are in a bad marriage.

You are wondering what things could have been if you and your old love had not broken up, wondering if things might have been better.

I agree with janedoex, it is better to look into the future, not at what happened in the past.

Have you considered marriage counseling?

Please work out your bad marriage, and then focus on getting your life together, and for now at least, leave that fantasy kid stuff alone. 15?? Give me a break going back that far since you were happy.

POST SCRIPT- I had 3 girl friends back when I was 15. They all quit me.