Me and my girlfriend been through a lot.break up to break up.And I have maid a lot of bad choices and mistakes.The thing is I've made the same mistakes over and over, but I do love my woman and been trying to consitently make things good between us both.She don't believe that I love herwhen I say it and mean it. And its because all I have done.There is also no trust in our relationship and inccidents have happen where I ask where I don't believe her and she would respond with uv done a lot of things and that I didn't have to call you and let you know where I was at I couldva said fu** it I don't care.its hard for me to trust because of all the things I've done.im young she has a pretty decent amount of yrs on me and I always find that I'm always the wrong and she is rarely no never I mean never wrong out of our 2yr plus relationship and I was wondering if she was smart enough and with her experience finding away tomake like I'm wrong.she says its because I don't think and I jump da gun.but I don't know? What I really wanted to know what's ALL the signs that she may leave me?? And what's the signs that all of you helpdesk would look for and a cheating love one?? what should I do?

From the sound of it I'd say this relationship does not stand a chance. Too many, what ifs, does she love me , I don't trust you, you're always wrong. Too many negatives.
I'd advise you both to say good bye, and move on.

She doesn't trust you or believe you because your actions don't match what you say. You say you love her but you run around on her and make other mistake. To a woman that says I don't love you I love me.

It doesn't seem you guys have a lot to stand on.

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Originally Posted by GlindaofOz

She doesn't trust you or believe you because your actions don't match what you say. You say you love her but you run around on her and make other mistake. To a woman that says I don't love you I love me.

It doesn't seem you guys have a lot to stand on.

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Well glindao what should I do.where should I start because we both want tob with each other.recently what got me is when she said that I don't give her da time to let the mistakes I've made ride because I go and do something else... maybe she got apoint but I still think about and I say how could I've have been made to always be wrong all da time.what gives

Man up. If you say you love her act like it. Treat her right. Cherish your relationship and work on communicating with her and boosting trust levels. Ask her what she needs from you in order to trust you and feel as if she is truly loved. Then do it. You should be talking to her not us. Believe me if you say to her "what can I do to make you feel loved and cherished?" she will jump at the opportunity.

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Originally Posted by Homegirl 50

From the sound of it I'd say this relationship does not stand a chance. Too many, what ifs, does she love me , I don't trust you, you're always wrong. Too many negatives.
I'd advise you both to say good bye, and move on.

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Well glindao what should I do.where should I start because we both want tob with each other.recently what got me is when she said that I don't give her da time to let the mistakes I've made ride because I go and do something else... maybe she got apoint but I still think about and I say how could I've have been made to always be wrong all da time.what gives

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Originally Posted by GlindaofOz

Man up. If you say you love her act like it. Treat her right. Cherish your relationship and work on communicating with her and boosting trust levels. Ask her what she needs from you in order to trust you and feel as if she is truly loved. Then do it. You should be talking to her not us. Believe me if you say to her "what can I do to make you feel loved and cherished?" she will jump at the opportunity.

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I ddidnt know what to do that's why icame to you guys thanks I think you helped