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  • Sep 18, 2007, 10:58 PM
    empty heart
    Okay so,
    I'm 16 turning 17 in November.
    Losing my virginity at age 15 to my ex -- my first and last love, I kind of regret it, but he would hate me when I get mad at him when I told him that.
    Anyway, we were both sexually active, but did not have unprotected sex. We foreplayed and used a condom every time during sex.
    I told him that I could not finish -- climax, and he felt upset during that one year and month with him, knowing I couldn't orgasm. He said he would try harder.

    Even now I try once and a while. Turns out I like pain, but hitting my G makes me want to pee and my bladder sucks.
    So I kept going, but I couldn't take it! I had to pee!
    And when I do pee, I feel a REALLY nice release.
    My urine always looks like a pale yellow, smelling like pee and a strong smell from my juices.
    Could it be that I orgasm while I pee?

    Who knows ]:

    Any one have any ideas?
  • Sep 19, 2007, 01:12 AM
    CRAZYSPIKES27
    You might
    Sometimes when feel like I go to go pee it
    It feels good
    So maybe have that
  • Sep 19, 2007, 08:29 PM
    empty heart
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by CRAZYSPIKES27
    you might
    sometimes when feel like i go to go pee it
    it feels good
    so maybe have that

    Heehee.
    :]
  • Sep 19, 2007, 08:52 PM
    Wondergirl
    Yes, it sounds like everything lets go at once--your bladder and your orgasm. Does your bladder feel like it's been wrung out and completely emptied? And you are totally exhausted and relaxed?

    Don't drink anything for the hour before sex (if possible) and be sure to empty your bladder as completely as possible beforehand.
  • Sep 20, 2007, 06:42 PM
    tigerfly222
    If there is anything in my bladder, I have the same 'urge' to pee when I am close to orgasm... although I never orgasm from sex, only from oral or hand job. I agree with previous poster, try to empty your bladder before sex.
  • Sep 21, 2007, 08:43 PM
    southern_missouri
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by empty heart
    Okay so,
    im 16 turning 17 in november.
    losing my virginity at age 15 to my ex -- my first and last love, i kind of regret it, but he would hate me when i get mad at him when i told him that.
    Anyway, we were both sexually active, but did not have unprotected sex. we foreplayed and used a condom every time during sex.
    I told him that i could not finish -- climax, and he felt upset during that one year and month with him, knowing i couldnt orgasm. He said he would try harder.

    Even now I try once and a while. Turns out i like pain, but hitting my G makes me wanna pee and my bladder sucks.
    So i kept going, but i couldnt take it! I had to pee!
    And when I do pee, i feel a REALLY nice release.
    My urine always looks like a pale yellow, smelling like pee and a strong smell from my juices.
    Could it be that I orgasm while I pee?

    who knows ]:

    Any one have any ideas?

    The same thing happens to me! My orgasms are very strong, but when I do - sometimes I also wet the bed. And yes - to me it smells like pee. My husband says he likes these orgasms! But I get tired of changing the sheets... ha. I've checked this out online and I found that a lot of women share this same thing. I've also read that this is a type of "ejaculate" that some women experience when they orgasm (I've heard some men call women who do this a "squirter" - - lol ) and that since it comes out the same tube as your urine - it smells like pee --- but I don't know if I agree.

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