Wow, it has been a LONG time since I have been here, so I thought I would drop in and say hello. It doesn't look like the "usuals" are here anymore, but I used to come on here about a year ago and got a TON of great tips from a lot of people. My advice to all of you is have an open mind and TRY to listen to the people that are here to help. As for me, still here, still alive, having a great time. I went through a RUFF spot, but all that is behind me now. I took a break from dating for a while to collect myself mentally, and am now dating an AMAZING girl. It's been about 3 weeks now, and I am FOR SURE taking the "less is more" angle. We are both SUPER busy, and I am actually off to Germany next week for Oktoberfest!! Things have really been great, and I really have a lot of you guys to thank! I was a real work in progress, and it took A lot longer to "heal" from my whole situation than I ever thought it would. I carried a TON of baggage, and it took a lot of work with ME to fix that. Now, I just think of everything as a learning situation. I don't push, take my time, and don't let the "fuzzy feelings" blind me from what I know I should do. The gal I am dating now has been a friend for a LONG time, and things just kind of happened one night out of the blue... STRANGE really. Again, just wanted to say hello, and I will TRY and get on here a bit more to help others out as I was helped! Ok, back to school work... I GRADUATE IN 2 MONTHS!! :cool:

I don't know you, but I am glad that things are going better for you! Congratulations!

Good for you jeff, I think I remember your story.

Jeff, good to hear you are well on the road to relationship recovery. Keep up the good work.

Hey I agree with less is more etc. : ) Good on you, you got back to being healthy and learning!

Independent and happy alone is good and you took your time and came out stronger! There's hope for us broken hearted.

Like I said, I was here a LONG time ago. Chery, momincali, and talin really looked after me a lot. I see Chery is still here, and talin.

Hey Jeff. Good to hear from you. A lot of us are still here. Great to hear your doing well. You'll love Germany and Oktoberfest. Its awesome.

Skell, what up bud! I remember you! Yea, Germany is AMAZING, I have been to Oktoberfest there twice now... can't wait! Good too see you guys are mostly still here!