Ask Me Help Desk - Should I just ask him?

Its really getteing tempting for me to ask him before he asks me... he always tells me to sit next to him or for me to save a seat for him. He always flirts with me. He pokess me when he walks by me and when I look at him he smiles and walks away... this afternoon when everyone was getting ready to leave, alex comes up to me and asks me to hold something for him in my locker till 2marrow (I think he's trying to make a reason to see me... maybe... idk)... this may not seem like it's a big deal but he could have gone to his other friends but he chose me. In the library when we were on the computer (we were typing an "about me" poem) he would flirt with me wenevr we could... we never stoppped talking and we always laughed... but when jimmie (this 2 faced, immature jerk I went out with last year) starts saying o alex you like chris (we call alex chris when I'm around because it gets confusing, thus which is the reason I told what our nicknames were last post) and I said "no i dont... how come a girl can't hang out with a guy without being accused of liking them" and chris (alex) said "yea same with guys" and I said this like I actually meant it (I did but not for this situation) so now I think he thinks that I just want to be friends... but what really got me is when he helped me carry my things to my locker!! (the library is upstairs and were downstairs)
How can I get him to not think that I don't want to be just friends and should I just go for it and ask him out before he does?? Plzzz help

Depends how good friends you are with him.
If you guys have a good friendship that means it'll be OK for you to ask him out, i.e. its not going to affect your friendship. Plus it is generally better to establish a relationship on a foundation of existing friendship.

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Originally Posted by SDRAWKCAB-SDRAWROF

depends how good friends you are with him.
If you guys have a good friendship that means it'll be ok for you to ask him out, i.e. its not going to affect your friendship. Plus it is generally better to establish a relationship on a foundation of existing friendship.

Thank you... im going to ask him 2marrow... we do have a friendship but its like a friendship where we flirt lol... thank you again

What did he end up saying when you asked him out?

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Originally Posted by alyxstarxx23

its really getteing tempting for me to ask him b4 he asks me....he always tells me to sit next to him or for me to save a seat for him. he always flirts with me. he pokess me when he walks by me and when i look at him he smiles and walks away....this afternoon wen everyone was getting ready to leave, alex comes up to me and asks me to hold something for him in my locker till 2marrow (i think hes trying to make a reason to see me...maybe....idk)....this may not seem like its a big deal but he could have gone to his other friends but he chose me. in the library wen we were on the computer (we were typing an "about me" poem) he would flirt with me wenevr we could....we never stoppped talking and we always laughed.....but wen jimmie (this 2 faced, immature jerk i went out with last year) starts saying o alex u like chris (we call alex chris wen im around because it gets confusing, thus which is the reason i told what our nicknames were last post) and i said "no i dont... how come a girl can't hang out with a guy without being accused of liking them" and chris (alex) said "yea same with guys" and i said this like i actually ment it (i did but not for this situation) so now i think he thinks that i just wanna be friends...but what really got me is when he helped me carry my things to my locker!!! (the library is upstairs and were downstairs)
how can i get him to not think that i dont wanna be just friends and should i just go ahead and go for it and ask him out b4 he does??? plzzz help

Ask. What have you got to lose? He probably feels the same way that you do, and is maybe a little scared himself. If he doesn't feel the same way, you guys can still be friends; no harm done.

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Originally Posted by alyxstarxx23

its really getteing tempting for me to ask him b4 he asks me....he always tells me to sit next to him or for me to save a seat for him. he always flirts with me. he pokess me when he walks by me and when i look at him he smiles and walks away....this afternoon wen everyone was getting ready to leave, alex comes up to me and asks me to hold something for him in my locker till 2marrow (i think hes trying to make a reason to see me...maybe....idk)....this may not seem like its a big deal but he could have gone to his other friends but he chose me. in the library wen we were on the computer (we were typing an "about me" poem) he would flirt with me wenevr we could....we never stoppped talking and we always laughed.....but wen jimmie (this 2 faced, immature jerk i went out with last year) starts saying o alex u like chris (we call alex chris wen im around because it gets confusing, thus which is the reason i told what our nicknames were last post) and i said "no i dont... how come a girl can't hang out with a guy without being accused of liking them" and chris (alex) said "yea same with guys" and i said this like i actually ment it (i did but not for this situation) so now i think he thinks that i just wanna be friends...but what really got me is when he helped me carry my things to my locker!!! (the library is upstairs and were downstairs)
how can i get him to not think that i dont wanna be just friends and should i just go ahead and go for it and ask him out b4 he does??? plzzz help

Just tell him. I have a lot of guys friends and I get crushes on them and stuff and when I'm over I somhow end up metionnig it to them and they tell me that if I would have just told them that they would have so gone out with me and even if he doesn't like you he knows now and if he never thought of you that way he know has the chance to happened woth me and now we've been going out for a year! Good luck though I wish you tha best!