I have a best friend for the past 10 years and for the past 3 years we have been lovers too. He is a great guy and we see each other every other week but talk on the phone a lot we are so busy with our jobs. Last week we were having sex and he told me that he loved me but I don't know if he realized that I heard him and if he really means it. How can I find out and how do ask him. My friend told me the next time I see him and we are doing the same thing to tell him that I love him I really do but I have a hard time tell him how I feel in that sense. I think that he really does know how I feel about him. Help me please./ :confused: