I went no contact for a month, she just im'd me on AOL
I took everyone's advice, we broke up, I spent 8 months trying to get her back, the girl I'm on love with met someone else a month ago, they just broke up ( I think he cheated on her) She did all that knowing I was still in love with her. I went no contact for the past 30 days... she just quickly IM'ed me with : " as a friend, hope you and your family are doing well, take care" \ Not: "hi how are you" Not: "hey how have you been?" just : "as a friend, hope you and you family are doing well, take care.....after I spent 8 months agonizing about her, calling her, begging her....just for her to get with this guy for a month knowing it kills me inside...and she now wants to give me sweet im's like that? ? For the record I didnt respond....I miss her so much its killing me.....I think shes just trying to see if I still want her back. I want to talk to her so bad, but Ive actually made progress with this no contact idea...I changed my number and everything.......any advice?
Keep in mind, shes 1000 miles away, told me that our relationship was long distance and superficial...(it lasted 8 months) and that she didnt want another long distance relationship....then KNOWING I am in love with her, dated another guy long distance!!!, while she plays with the puppy i bought her....now wants to see how me and my family are doing???
I think its just out of guilt to make herself feel better. She wants to feel better about herself by trying to be "friends" with me.
Any opinions?