So I was dating this guy and I was really into him. We met through mutual friends and really hit it off. When we stared having sex it was really good but I always though it was weird that he would leave the room right before sex. So one day I was over at his house and his sister and I were friends and she mentioned that they went on a trip to mexico the previous day that he had not told me about and he acted really weird about it when it was brought up. Later his siter told me that they went to get Viagra. That he was too embarresed to tell me. WHAT THE HECK?? She said that its not that I didn't turn him on but that he just couldn't get arroused.shortly after that it was sort of weird especially cause I don't want to say anything. I mean come on I was a young hot 18 year old how can a 23 year old guy have this kind of problem? I don't get it, can a 23 year old really have a problem with this? Do I say something?

Yes, there are medical reason for ED. He should be checked out by a Dr. if he hasent already. You might want to talk to him about in a very nice way that is a very embarrising thing for a man to go through expecilly since he is so young!

Some guys also think popping a Viagra will turn them into superman. Where its not going to turn him into the man of steel if he has no other problems. At 23 it could possibly be either situation.

I would talk to him about it... there is no shame in taking it. Make sure he is taking it safely, talk openly about it. I would feel way more comfortable knowing and I bet he would love to be able to tell you.