Hey guys my name is Andy, I'm 23 from England, and here is my story, basically I had been going out with this girl for two years, it went great but we split for a month in the first year because I talked to another girl online, and my head was all over the place, luckily I didn't see that girl and poured my heart out to my girl, so we went back and things went great again, then recently she went out for the night without me, and didn't text me the next day, someone brought up that she was with another fella, so I questioned it, she said no then went on the defensive, short story short, I said things under heat of moment that I didn't mean, and it hurt her, we talked afterwards and seemed to have sorted it again and was relieved but then few days later she texts me saying we need to go our separate ways, she said id hurt her too much and id changed into someone she didn't love anymore, so basically fell out of love with me, I've seen her since and we chat and everything goes OK, but she says she wants to be on her own for a while now, when asked can you ever love me she replyed I don't know, I have poured my heart out to the girl but she just won't bother txting as much if I text her, my question is do I live through the pain, sort myself out and see if she finds it in her heart to love me again, or do I somehow have to get through it, it just really hurts that was a great two years of my life with her, I feel she is my soul mate, I just think deep down I need to better myself and slowly win her back like the first time we met.

Thanks for listening feedback appriciated!

Andy

If she is your soul mate then she will come back. Don't pressure her believe me
I am a woman and I know that is the worst thing you can do.
Go on with youe life and like you said get yourself togeather.
If its meant to be it will be, if not then it won't. Only time will tell.
Maybe you both need to give it a rest and just see what happens.
Good luck to you!