My boyfriend of over a year just recently dumped me because I lied to him about something little. But I've lied to him before and he didn't seem to care as much then and every time we have broken up we have gotten back together. And he has never gone more than 2 days without talking to me. But this time he told my friend that he didn't want anything to do with me at all anymore. And he won't even be my friend. And its been almost 7 days now and we haven't talked once. Is it just because he is the most stubborn person that I know? How do I get him back into my life? because I love him way too much to just let him go.

Quote:

---

Originally Posted by cassie9506

my boyfriend of over a year just recently dumped me because i lied to him about something little. but i've lied to him before and he didn't seem to care as much then and every time we have broken up we have gotten back together. and he has never gone more than 2 days without talking to me. but this time he told my friend that he didn't want anything to do with me at all anymore. and he won't even be my friend. and its been almost 7 days now and we havnt talked once. is it just because he is the most stubborn person that i know? how do i get him back into my life?, because i love him way to much to just let him go.

---

Hey I really do feel for you I have been in the same boat before!: ( just from my past experiances when you have been with some one for so long and things don't run all that smoothly each time there is a lie or you break up little by little some of the feelings from either both parties or just one person fade and they eventually see that maybe the relationship won't work.
The only way to perhaps see if you can get him back is to swallow your pride and tell him how you feel and if he will give it one more chance! At leat you will know either way and take it from there.

I am in the same situation. Lied to my boyfriend, we broke up, most stubborn guy I know but the only difference is he's still talking to me. Trust me it will be so much easier to just cut all ties and focus on yourself. Fair enough tell him how you feel and if he feels the same great but if he doesn't put no contact into motion. It will take a while but you will soon be back on your feet and wondering why you were so upset. Learn from your mistakes so in your next relationship you are honest so you won't have to deal with something like this again :)
Hope all goes well for you xx