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  • Sep 17, 2007, 01:41 AM
    Moomin
    Women viewing porn.
    I watched a TV show last night about one of the first female porn directors in the UK. It showed a massive convention where people could buy everything from outfits, sexaids to porn. It was said more and more women are buying porn...

    So I guess my questions are...
    GUYS - would it put you off a girl if you found out she enjoyed porn in her 'own time'? Haha!
    GIRLS - how would you feel if you found out a girlfriend used porn?

    :o
  • Sep 17, 2007, 02:36 AM
    iAMfromHuntersBar
    I think it's superb that women are feeling empowered enough to both view and make porn, although I can't say I'm one bit surprised - it's a billion dollar industry, why shouldn't they!

    So long as porn doesn't encroach on normal daily activities or the person's relationship I would never see a problem with women watching porn!

    I read about that director too, can't remember her name though! I do know that Ann Summers stocks a lot of 'for women, by women' porn though!
  • Sep 17, 2007, 02:50 AM
    Moomin
    Her name is Anna Span, she said looks for equally attractive men and women! I think it's good for women to have an attractive man to look at as well! I must admit I was surprised women haven't directed up until 1997! Like you said - money, money, money - MONEY!
  • Sep 17, 2007, 02:52 AM
    curlybenswife
    Bring it on is what I say all those prudes with mega hang ups about there bodys and others showing off there bodys need a swift slap what's good for the goose is good for the gander.
  • Sep 17, 2007, 03:00 AM
    Moomin
    I wonder if a beer swilling stereotypical man could tell the difference if it's been directed by a woman?

    Ha!
  • Sep 17, 2007, 03:09 AM
    curlybenswife
    I doubt it still has the whole boob and willy filled fest doesn't it...
  • Sep 17, 2007, 03:27 AM
    Moomin
    Haha! I guess... Some research may be in order!
  • Sep 17, 2007, 03:28 AM
    curlybenswife
    LOL no energy at the moment for that giggle
  • Sep 17, 2007, 04:23 AM
    iAMfromHuntersBar
    You two are terrible!

    No, it's very different from stereotypical porn - a lot more focus is placed on a good plot and a lifelike-fantasy situation!

    I think it's rubbish! Ha ha! But then again I am "a beer swilling stereotypical man"!

    Lol!
  • Sep 17, 2007, 04:29 AM
    curlybenswife
    More like a pain in the Arse lol either way though I just don't see what the big deal is about porn its human nature after all.
  • Sep 17, 2007, 04:41 AM
    iAMfromHuntersBar
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by curlybenswife
    ... i just dont see what the big deal is about porn its human nature after all.

    Amen!

    Quote:

    Nine-tenths of the appeal of pornography is due to the indecent feelings concerning sex which moralists inculcate in the young; the other tenth is physiological, and will occur in one way or another whatever the state of the law may be.
    ~ Bertrand Russell (1872-1970) British logician and philosopher.
  • Sep 17, 2007, 04:46 AM
    curlybenswife
    It's a multi million industry so it shows just how many do partake in it or it wouldn't be worth so dam much would it, its like these women who say to there men I saw you looking at her blah blah heck girl he was just looking catch him trying the goods then wipe the floor with him until then shut up and join in lol
  • Sep 17, 2007, 10:55 AM
    smoothy
    My wife is free to view any porn she likes around me... in fact most porn movies we rent are what she likes to see more than what I want to see. I'm happy to watch with her what turns her on the most.

    I've always known to watch the woman, learn her likes and dislikes. It helps make you a better lover to her by understanding what makes her tick.
  • Sep 18, 2007, 04:44 AM
    Moomin
    Indeed you do need to know what makes your partner tick, I think it's best to be open... men AND women unite and admit your love for porn! Haha!

    I think if women made more porn the titles of some would change...
  • Sep 18, 2007, 04:54 AM
    curlybenswife
    To right Moomin there are way to many prudes out there a lot of people certainly need to learn to open up more.
    I think it also helps if a person is realistic about there goals with there partener and doesn't try to walk before they can run as more often than not that causes more harm than good.

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