Originally Posted by startover22
Ok, well let me tell you that mothers do this all the time. I am one to go the other route, so my view may not be what you want to hear.....I honestly think if you want to go to school you should wait till the youngest is in school....so you can work around their times of need. If this is impossible then I guess you do what you have to. I just kow that they need you at this young age and not being there will be hard. I think if they were both at school and so were you, you could make sure one of you (your fiance' and you) could be there when the other is not. I did this for years, not for school but for work, it was my hubbies and I time that was not there, but the kids time was....finally that is over. Good luck, you have so much to think about!