Well my best friend does coke and every time she does it she insists on telling me. The guy she does it with is now locked up, and every time I talk to her she is always talking about him how do I tell her I do not care about him or her coke addiction with out being mean?

Tell it sraight out but it a nice way just tell her how your feeling and stuff

But I have a feeling she isn't going to qiut and if she doesn't then I am not going to be her friend anymore because I do not want to be acciated with that I'm a good girl and she is really luck I'm friend with her after all the other stuff she does

Am I being to harsh

No no that is not harsh at all. I would not want to be assositated with people like that anyway.
Just tell her how you feel and if things don't change I just wouldn't worry about her

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Originally Posted by Miss lovley

well my bestfriend does coke and everytime she does it she insists on telling me. The guy she does it with is now locked up, and everytime i talk to her she is always talking about him how do i tell her i do not care about him or her coke addiction with out being mean?

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Be your own Best Friend and get new friends, ones that don't do coke/crack/heroin/oxycoton/haderol/Xtasy or any of that crahp.

Let the perfessionals rescur your friend, if ever she wants to be rescued and it don't seem that a lot do.

It ain't turning your back on your friend, it's not turning your back on yourself! Love yourself enough to love yourself and let your former friend and acquaintance do whatever she's going to do as she will anyway.

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I would tell her what you think of her behaviour.

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Originally Posted by sarah1989

Tell it sraight out but it a nice way just tell her how your feeling and stuff

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I'm sorry but her boyfriend is going downhill and taking her with him,tell before its to late,good luck xx

If I just stop talking to her all together is that rude?
I really don't want to be friends with a coke head.
She says she is not addicted but 3 days in a row she did it

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Originally Posted by Miss lovley

if i just stop talking to her all together is that rude?
i really don't want to be friends with a coke head.
she says she is not addicted but 3 days in a row she did it

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That is something you definitely don't need to get involved with. I would tell her that if she can't stop bringing this around you (telling you about it counts as bringing it around you) then you can't be her friend anymore.

Do you think I was being rude when I ignored her for 4 days and when she finally got ahold of me I told her I didn't want to hear about her friend in jail?

I personally don't think you were being rude.

I think she is rude for telling you things about drugs and whatnot. Things that you are better off not getting involved with.

Thank you all so much
I am going to stop talking to her all together

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Originally Posted by Miss lovley

well my bestfriend does coke and everytime she does it she insists on telling me. The guy she does it with is now locked up, and everytime i talk to her she is always talking about him how do i tell her i do not care about him or her coke addiction with out being mean?

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Just tell her she IS addicted. Talk to her. (In person) Talk to her about rehab and other options she has. Tell her people DIE using this crap. If she dosen't listen talk to her parents about. Good Luck. Oh, and not talking to her could tempt her to get stoned again.
Hope you help her beat the habit,
Codename: havefaith