I am a mother of three from a previous marriage, went through the divorce- with him the primary me with custody and child support, he hasn't been providing a stable safe environment for the children, which they were temporarily placed in my care(by DFS) while the investigation has been going on, while I had the children in care, my 15 year old snuck out of the house with the six year old to meet up with their dad, and its now been over 3 weeks since I have seen them, at which one point my 15 year old calls me up and tells me to drop the full custody that she and the six year old has decided to live with the dad, I told her its not her decision, that it will be the courts decision of which home will be more stable for them, he doesn't have a roof over their heads, a job, been keeping the children in hiding to when it comes my visitation, no where to be found. I have court in the morning and I am afraid that my 15 year old is going to lie about everything and say she doesn't want to live with me, do I just lay myself down again and allow this man to have control over everything, do I Have any chance of the judge awarding me the Full custody?