Is it possible for two bodies to simply not chemically offset each other? Every time I am with this one particular man, I get a UTI. However, it never happens with any other partners I've had. Here's the thing - he's possibly the CLEANEST man I've ever met. I mean he's obsessive about being clean. So could it be that our bodies just don't like each other? :confused:

It is more likely the fact that he is a little larger than other parteners or is a little more forcefull and you end up getting bruised this can cause a UTI.
Try relaxing a bit more before intercourse enjoy the foreplay get lost in the moment and go from there.

I would love to say that is the answer, but there must be another. Case in point, with my husband I always get infections, he too is obsesivly clean. I had been with bigger men with not as good hygene and nothing. I do believe there is something about particular people and body chemistry. You do have a point about size but there is a chance that it is not due to size.

There is definitely a chance that the two of you just don't "mix" if you know what I mean. I have heard of women who are allergic to their man's sperm and they end up with UTIs.

I have to ask before considering that thought though. Do you two use protection? If not, you may want to try using a condom next time and see what happens.

Maybe it's whatever soap he uses if he is very clean. Soaps are very alkiline and can upset everything.

My boyfriend and I have had trouble before from soaps/bodywashes, changed them and everything sorted itself out.