Whenever I'm having sex with my boyfriend, I get to the point where I feel like I'm going to explode, but I'm also getting the feeling that I have to pee. So I hold back, but is that the sensation of an orgasm? Do I not need to hold back? I don't know what to do and my boyfriend is feeling incompetent in the bedroom. Any ideas to help me orgasm? Or what I might be missing?

From the millions of articles (maybe over-exaggerating there! Lol)I've read in Men's magazines about women having orgasms I've come to believe it is quite common for women to feel like they are going to pee just before they climax... so I'd say you need to relax at this point...

However, I'm certainly no expert, not being a woman and all! Lol!

Come on ladies... help out the OP here!

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Originally Posted by chiphkali

dats wat em doin :mad:

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Sorry, I don't mean to be rude or anything, but I wouldn't take advice from someone who can't form words properly, so I doubt the OP will either to be honest... it just seems a tad immature to me!

Sorry again!

J

I have to admit this is some embarrassing knowledge to have... Some women actually need to urinate during their orgasms, and from what Ive seen a lot of guys like it. I think most women pretend it's not urine and say it's their juices spraying across the room, but it is pee. I would try to pee really hard prior to sex and see if that helps. Or hang up some plastic and buy your boyfriend a rain-suit and have at er. LOL... I don't have the solution but I will research it for you OK?

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Originally Posted by chirubybear

whenever im having sex with my boyfriend, i get to the point where i feel like im going to explode, but im also getting the feeling that i have to pee. so i hold back, but is that the sensation of an orgasm? do i not need to hold back? i dont know what to do and my boyfriend is feeling incompetent in the bedroom. any ideas to help me orgasm? or what i might be missing?

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Simple go take a pee before having sex. Wife has described that feeling, particularly before a strong orgasm. You are at the front door, all you have to do is step in at this point.

Its felling like you have to pee is not the sensation of the orgasm, but the one right at the point you are ready to start having it. Do what I said by emptying your bladder right before sex then you just let go at that point. Eventually you will see its closely related in feel but not the same thing.

I researched it and I have come to the same answer each time. Pelvic floor exercises and maybe a trip to the gynecologist. But first-You should try really hard to masturbate on your own and reach orgasm and see what happens when you don't stop. Could be Disneyland! Or maybe water-world, You may not even have a problem at all, I would do it. Set up a towel for the potential mess, because I believe it is worth it. When I watch a girl reach that point of orgasm I would do anything to have a chance to feel as good as they obviously do. "Apparently there is nothing like it!" Good luck and have fun!
(Oh yeah... You are supposed to take a sample to the doctors office if you are having a problem. They can find out alot from looking at it I guess.)

Orgasms and the feeling have to pee are almost the same. You can have a orgasm and not have that feeling. What you are feeling is what guys call squirting and it is a orgasm and VERY VERY intense one. YOu might "pee on him" but it won't be pee it will be your so to speak.

The entense feeling of having to urinate before or during orgasm is not pee. It is female ejaculate. Nothing to be embarrassed about, it is part of being a healthy sexual woman.

crushedovernover (what does this name mean!) is correct, mr. quinn.

Yes keep going it is "female ejaculate" or "squirting". As well as your natural lubricant during foreplay this is what is called the "wet patch". Totally natural and OK.