Hello all once again...

I hate to post here again, because I'm afraid those who saw my last few posts are going to have start to hate my girlfriend. I'd like to get some honest opinions about this situation, regardless of the previous situations, and what I should do...

To start from the beginning, my girlfriend is convinced that a certain girl has feelings for me and flirts with me. This girl is my good friends girlfriend. I have known her for a while, and would consider us friends, though my primary friendship is with her boyfriend.

She is a friendly person, and can see her as being flirty sometimes. This made my girlfriend uncomfortable, so I did what I thought was appropriate. I confronted her about it, and told her that my girlfriend suspected she had feelings for me (as uncomforable as that was), and she told me, like I thought, that she hadn't and didn't ever consider it. In fact, she was pretty offended at my girlfriend for "accusing" her of doing something behind her boyfriend (my friend)'s back (my girlfriend threatened to "tell my friend and see what he thought about it".

Let me back up for a second. The reason most of this came about is that this girl was text messaging me fairly often, sometimes everyday for a week or so, and it started to get odd when I received messages later at night (10:30 or so). They were innocent messages ("Whats up loser?"), though a little flirty I suppose and untimely. I didn't think anything of it, but I was pretty much told that if I didn't confront her about it and tell her to stop, the relationship was over.

Needless to say, I did it, and she stopped. She was offended, but we still talked, as friends. No "flirty" messages, no text messages, maybe a phone call now and then if her boyfriend and her wanted to do something.

Now that I am back at school, my girlfriend is convinced I talk to her all the time, and found out that she had messaged me online. I told her that I had to be going, as I was doing something, and signed offline.

My girlfriend found out, and accused me to still continuing to talk to her (which I never understood to be "out-of-bounds", just that I watch how things go down), and told me that I have to choose between her or my girlfriend.

I think this is ridiculous and have hardly said a word to her in about a day now. She is angry, but I told her that I refuse to not talk to a friend just beucase she doesn't like her. She has been told repeatedly by me that I do not have feelings for her, and she doesn't for me. The girl has actually called and yelled at my girlfriend for accusing her of that, and it still doesn't sink in.

Sorry that this was long, but am I justified in saying I don't want to ignore someone who hasn't done anything to me. Is it wrong of me to call her a friend? Should I stop talking to her because "she is just my friends girlfriend, and my girlfriend, someone I love, doesn't want me to talk to her".

Maybe I'm just being emotionally beaten down?

I forgot to mention in the original post this little tidbit:

I hadn't been talking to her at all, as I said, maybe once in the last 3 weeks or so. She messaged me, and I told her that I was busy, was going to play cards, and got offline. My girlfriend found out, and was upset that I had a "conversation" with her. She told me that I was "Not to say two words to her, unless it is an emergency".

I don't know whether to laugh because that is so ridiculous, or if I should feel bad because I am truly at fault here.

Why are you still with this controlling psycho from hell? Ain't that much love in the world, for me to put up with her crap!!