How do you know whether you are a virgin or not?

If you had intercourse (penetration of the penis into the vagina) you are no longer a virgin.

I have a question about this too that will help this questioner person too.

Does oral count? There is no penetration into the vagina

Oral is a form of a sexual act, but it is not sex in and of itself. To no longer be considered a virgin, there must be penile penetration into the vagina.

Go to the adult sexuality board and you will find a very in depth discussion on this. But the simple fact of the matter is as J_9 says above. If the penis penetrates the vagina your days as a virgin are all over red rover! But that doesn't matter. It doesn't make you any less of a person in 95% of peoples eyes.

And if you are one virgin, there is nothing to be ashamed of, you should be proud of yourself!

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Originally Posted by nicespringgirl

And if you are one virgin, there is nothing to be ashamed of, you should be proud of yourself!!

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Ya I am a virgin

I would considder it normal to stay a virgin until as late as your 20's.
You are in the development phase of your life... You shoud not rush it.

So by these definitions, iffen you're gay, then you'd allus be a Virgin?

If you are viirgin it means you haven't had sex.im a virgin

Wait until you find someone special! Its much better with someone you love , that said you might get dumped sooner or later so make sure THERE SPECIAL

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Originally Posted by cpalmist

So by these definitions, iffen you're gay, then you'd allus be a Virgin??

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Yes, but you will be experienced in the ways of sex. :eek:

I think the v-card is lost after anal, too.

If I can put the time back to my earlier years I will wait until I knew it was the right guy... I know be virgin or not is not that important to 95% of people, but know you are giving yourself to your real love will be amazing. The person must to make you feel like you are levitating and make you feel completely overdose with passion and love.

I am regretting not be virgin because I was with someone so special and I did wish he will be the first one to make me a woman. So, wait don't rush... SEX is good but GREAT is SEX with LOVE... trust me is AMAZING FEELING.