Ask Me Help Desk - No orgasm,what's wrong!

I'm 21 yrs old,and have not yet,experienced an orgasm.I feel I have the problem,and don't know who to go and see,or ask.im very experienced and have had quite a few partners since the age of 14.I've experimented with all my partners and nothing seems to work.I never feel that orgasm pleasure like everyone says that your supposed to when you have an orgasm.I get very wet sometimes,but still no orgasm.whats happening,and what's wrong with me?

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Originally Posted by whatsup

i,m 21 yrs old,and have not yet,experienced an orgasm.i feel i have the problem,and don't know who to go and see,or ask.im very experienced and have had quite a few partners since the age of 14.i've experimented with all my partners and nothing seems to work.i never feel that orgasm pleasure like every1 says that your supposed to when you have an orgasm.i get very wet sometimes,but still no orgasm.whats happening,and whats wrong with me?

In my opinion women need an emotional connection that is safe and secure, in order to be able to orgasm. I have been married 31 years, and was "experienced" before I got married, but never had an orgasm until I met the right man, that I could love totally and he loved me the same way. It is more a state of mind than an experiment. It's not you - it's a lack of true intimacy between you and your partner. Relax and find someone who you know you have a future with.

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Originally Posted by whatsup

i,m 21 yrs old,and have not yet,experienced an orgasm.i feel i have the problem,and don't know who to go and see,or ask.im very experienced and have had quite a few partners since the age of 14.i've experimented with all my partners and nothing seems to work.i never feel that orgasm pleasure like every1 says that your supposed to when you have an orgasm.i get very wet sometimes,but still no orgasm.whats happening,and whats wrong with me?

There's nothing wrong with you. You just haven't found the right way to stimulate your "senses" enough to experience that great big O. it helps to either, "do it yourself" and masturbate for a while to see what gets you off.. or have a very patient partner who is willing to help you try this.. also, sometimes fantasies work!