I only have one question why does a person confied in you and everything else and tells someone elese that she/he may be leaving to another state?

So, you have been this girl's confidant and then she didn't tell you that she was moving away?

Without really knowing the situation, I want you to think critically about this situation. Was she actually trying to keep this from you? Do you think she's serious about moving away, or is she a person who puts ideas in motion prematurely?

Well this is SITUATION OF CRAP you know I have known about the prior, and he is in jail so I did take a chance

Sorry, I don't understand your reply roger. Can you rephrase it so I know what you mean?