I need someone to help me with this question, I've been with this guy for 8yrs now I'm 31 he's 43yrs anyway I have 2 kids from him and one from my x man, right now I'm a stay at home mom looking for work. My mom which is my best friend has h.i.v I get stress a lot anyway the day starit all wrong etc,etc my kids was driving me in sane I called my husband he was at work so I needed to blow some steam out, I call crying he didn't say much anyway nothing I wanted to hear, he came home angry that why I call him to stress him out,firt of all I have no friends cause I deacateit my life only to my family and he's one of thoes jeouls types about him and the family and no one else. Wrong thing I did,he came home upset mind u he works in constrution is not a desk job which there u have to do your job and not get stress.any way I felt alone I couldn't call my mom cause we had an argument that morning.I felt invsible whanting to scearm,run,hide to be alone with my thinking I told him when I'm stress I would'nt call him he got even more mad. What should I do when I'm feeling stress and invsable.

Check in your community for a Help Line, or a church of your choice.

I don't know how it is where you live, but where I live one can call Social Work Services or the Chaplain all hours of the day and someone is there.

I sure hope you find someone you can talk to because it sounds like you have a lot on your plate and need some time for yourself.

Heck, I would even try calling information and ask them if they can suggest who to talk to.

Good luck dear, I hope things will get better soon. Try and get some rest.

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Originally Posted by leemia

I need someone to help me with this question, i've been with this guy for 8yrs now i'm 31 he's 43yrs anyway i have 2 kids from him and one from my x man, right now i'm a stay at home mom looking for work. my mom which is my best friend has h.i.v i get stress alot anyway the day starit all wrong etc,etc my kids was driving me in sane i called my husband he was at work so i needed to blow some steam out, i call crying he didn't say much anyway nothing i wanted to hear, he came home angry that why i call him to stress him out,firt of all i have no friends cause i deacateit my life only to my family and he's one of thoes jeouls types about him and the family and no one else. wrong thing i did,he came home upset mind u he works in constrution is not a desk job which there u have to do ur job and not get stress.any way i felt alone i coudn't call my mom cause we had an arguement that morning.i felt invsible whanting to scearm,run,hide to be alone with my thinking i told him when i'm stress i would'nt call him he got even more mad. what should i do when i'm feeling stress and invsable.

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Start making friends and share with them. U can share with me. Their words can make you feel better. Don't worry I will pray for u... be cool and be string:)God bless u.

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Originally Posted by leemia

I need someone to help me with this question, i've been with this guy for 8yrs now i'm 31 he's 43yrs anyway i have 2 kids from him and one from my x man, right now i'm a stay at home mom looking for work. my mom which is my best friend has h.i.v i get stress alot anyway the day starit all wrong etc,etc my kids was driving me in sane i called my husband he was at work so i needed to blow some steam out, i call crying he didn't say much anyway nothing i wanted to hear, he came home angry that why i call him to stress him out,firt of all i have no friends cause i deacateit my life only to my family and he's one of thoes jeouls types about him and the family and no one else. wrong thing i did,he came home upset mind u he works in constrution is not a desk job which there u have to do ur job and not get stress.any way i felt alone i coudn't call my mom cause we had an arguement that morning.i felt invsible whanting to scearm,run,hide to be alone with my thinking i told him when i'm stress i would'nt call him he got even more mad. what should i do when i'm feeling stress and invsable.

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Girl,
Find you a good church... The church is full of people that you can talk to and lead you in the right direction... Trust in GOD... He can work it all out

Tell him you can not sit around the house depressed you need to get involved with a group whether it is church, volunteering, or a hobby because you need friends.
I can understand him being upset about you calling him at work. Construction is not a job where he is sitting at a desk waiting for a phone to ring. I work with construction sometimes and my 20 yr old son will call at the worst times, like when I am lifting an 80 pipe. He has an emotional fit if I don't answer, but I can't exactly drop what I am doing.
He is going to have to compromise and let you find some friends if he doesn't want you to run to him with your emotional needs all the time.

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Originally Posted by leemia

I need someone to help me with this question, i've been with this guy for 8yrs now i'm 31 he's 43yrs anyway i have 2 kids from him and one from my x man, right now i'm a stay at home mom looking for work. my mom which is my best friend has h.i.v i get stress alot anyway the day starit all wrong etc,etc my kids was driving me in sane i called my husband he was at work so i needed to blow some steam out, i call crying he didn't say much anyway nothing i wanted to hear, he came home angry that why i call him to stress him out,firt of all i have no friends cause i deacateit my life only to my family and he's one of thoes jeouls types about him and the family and no one else. wrong thing i did,he came home upset mind u he works in constrution is not a desk job which there u have to do ur job and not get stress.any way i felt alone i coudn't call my mom cause we had an arguement that morning.i felt invsible whanting to scearm,run,hide to be alone with my thinking i told him when i'm stress i would'nt call him he got even more mad. what should i do when i'm feeling stress and invsable.

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Try just geeting the kids to sit in watching TV while you have a cup of tea maybe go out the back garden for sum fresh air.On a more serious note your "husband" should always be there to listen to you and he should want you to have a social life make friends then when you do get stressed you'll have someone to talk to

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Originally Posted by leemia

I need someone to help me with this question, i've been with this guy for 8yrs now i'm 31 he's 43yrs anyway i have 2 kids from him and one from my x man, right now i'm a stay at home mom looking for work. my mom which is my best friend has h.i.v i get stress alot anyway the day starit all wrong etc,etc my kids was driving me in sane i called my husband he was at work so i needed to blow some steam out, i call crying he didn't say much anyway nothing i wanted to hear, he came home angry that why i call him to stress him out,firt of all i have no friends cause i deacateit my life only to my family and he's one of thoes jeouls types about him and the family and no one else. wrong thing i did,he came home upset mind u he works in constrution is not a desk job which there u have to do ur job and not get stress.any way i felt alone i coudn't call my mom cause we had an arguement that morning.i felt invsible whanting to scearm,run,hide to be alone with my thinking i told him when i'm stress i would'nt call him he got even more mad. what should i do when i'm feeling stress and invsable.

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I am in complete understanding of this... I have been in and am in this situation... I am not going to lie, it is time to say things you need to say. So if this is your only option use it. Voice your opinions here, and tell all. If you can get out with a day or a few hours by yourself... even going to the store alone can help relieve a little stress. Oh honey. Talk here if you must... keep going, we are listening! Hugs and lot's of love to you... Startover22

Thank tou everyone I have been away from this site for a while I truly forgot about .
Yhank you ,you guys I am happy to have a forum like this.

How are you holding up? I have been wondering about you;)

First its good to let your stress and pain out. And don't let your husband tlk like that to u your his wife, and it gets me mad because my mom has this kind of relationship with my step dad. Leave him and make him understand that he has bin hurting u. And dontt fall 4 his little tricks( when you leave him he will be crying for you to go bak to him and its true). This is not a good relationship and your son will live depressed because of your guys relationship. Don't let him screw with your life its your life.