It seems to me while reading the questions and answers here that most of the responses are the same. If you ask me life is messy and can effect our relationships in many different ways. So my questions is, what's with all the ONE ANSWER FITS ALL responses?

I don't necessarily agree with your findings. Answers are from many different people with varying viewpoints, different personalities and walks in life. If the you find some answers the same, then I think that is par for the course on some questions. It probably means that for some questions about problems in relationships there is really only one answer and if many of us answer the same way then that particular answer must be the right one.

Please site some answers in particular, I am curious to know why you are 'clearlydisappointed'.

tickle

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I dont necessarily agree with your findings. Answers are from many different people with varying viewpoints, different personalities and walks in life. If the you find some answers the same, then I think that is par for the course on some questions. It probably means that for some questions about problems in relationships there is really only one answer and if many of us answer the same way then that particular answer must be the right one.

Please site some answers in particular, I am curious to know why you are 'clearlydisappointed'.

tickle

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I agree with you tickle. I meant that some people here seem to give the same response no matter how different the circumstances may be. And I'm not clearlydissapointed in this forum. I'm dissapointed in my relationship.

I think what it boils down to is that a lot of situations seem different on the surface but ultimately the majority of relationships end the same. If you look at the questions on here there are a lot of "how to get my ex back" and the general is "we dated I loved him/her they said they are unhappy/don't love me anymore/need space what do I do to get them back?" or the ever popular "we dated I loved him/her they treated me like garbage our relationship was extremely dysfunctional however I don't see it that way how do I get them back?"

Whenever someone leaves you and says they don't love you or don't want to be with you the only choice you have as the person being dumped is to heal and move on. There is no sense in wallowing or trying to get the person back. Everyone on here has tried that at least once in their life to insanely disappointing results. When someone leaves the best thing for anyone to do is to move on. If someone really loved you they wouldn't walk out. If someone wants space give it to them. These are "stock" answers because it's the best thing to do.

Glinda your awesome. You are my taste of JERSEY when I wake up in the morning. Way to tell it like it is.. Where are you from in NJ. I'm originally from Seaside.

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Glinda ur awesome. U r my taste of JERSEY when I wake up in the morning. Way to tell it like it is.. Where are you from in NJ. I'm originally from Seaside.

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Thanks!

I'm from South Jersey. I'm right over the Ben Franklin my town is pretty small most people are familiar with Deptford or Haddonfield I'm a little bit further South then those towns.

When ever I read your posts I bring back my best JERSEY accent.