I was going out with this girl for a couple of months, now I no that it doesn't seem like a long time but we just clicked. We stated talking on myspace, then I was over her house the next day. We didn't do anything just talked and watched movies. Which was nice. And a couple of days later, it was official.

I've known her for a long time, we did work together (3 years ago) that's also when we first dated but that didn't last more then two weeks, and plus we were both rather immature. And from the two months we where together I found out that the reason the 2 week relationship broke up was because she didn't want me to get into trouble with my folks.

Well that's the background story,

My problem is that we broke up last weekend, and I can't stop thinking about her, should I wait for her or move on? She said that she needed some herself time and that she has "big feelings towards me" quote. At the moment a lot is going on in her life.1. she moving out, 2. just getting back to work 3. Family issues, 4. she recently broke up with her last b/f, badly.

What should I do, I understand her problems, and accept that she needs time, but what should I do? Wait for her, if so what can I do to take my mind off her, or move on?


BTW.. I've had some bad relationship issues with another girl, and I think its affecting this relationship. The previous girl cheated on me three times before I ended. And I feel that I have trust problems. One final comment is that I seem to over thin things and intern get jealous.

Anyway what do you guys think about my problem?

For your good as well as her's, leave her alone to deal with her life, and you do the same, and move on. Accept that it didn't work out, and you still have feelings to get over.