Hello,

I am newly married and we are having problems related to sex. My husband is not able to get excited or gets satisfied easily w/o doing anything . There is no erection so far. He has some mental disturbances also may be due to ups and down in career or he was not able to stick to any particular job for long. I guess he has some kind of depression or I don't know what to say. He avoids talking to people, he has lot of fears ( like some regional fears of cat passing your way, flying by air , etc etc), he is very intelligent but he is not able to concentrate in his job or I can say he is not able to deliver because of poor concentration. He hides as if I am his enemy or he looses trust on people. I am quite disturbed about the fact can this be treated, is sexual problem related to his mental state of mind.

A sexual problem can deff be caused by a mental problem. Both heads have to come together if you get my drift. I would really incourage him to see a trained doctor. I know it's a really hard thing for him to do but, if he doesn't want this to affect his marriage or job anymore then hopefully he will make the right decision. Good luck

He sounds like he needs serious professional help. I'm guessing that the sexual dysfunction is only one symptom of his deeper problems. Why did you marry him?