Married Pregnant and very lonely
So my husband and I have been married for only 9 months, I am 6 months pregnant with our second child (we have a four year old together) and I have never felt more alone. He goes out to the bar, is involved in softball, bowling and plus hangs out with friends often outside of the house. I'm dying for companionship with my husband and some attention. Minus all of the pregnancy feelings on top of it all! I feel like a have a room mate not a husband. I joke with him all the time and tell him do you even realize that I'm pregnant. He doesn't help me around the house unless I beg him - and it's only little things like taking out the garbage, since it can be to heavy for me at times. I feel so alone I can't stand it any more. There have been several times where I have cryied my eyes out to him telling him that I really want some of his attention just a hug and a kiss or him holding me in bed. I get nothing except him being defensive. I'm so afraid that our married will end quickly if it continues like this. It's now been several days that we have barely said two words to each other. I find myself sleeping on the couch at night and him not even seeming to care. I do not know what I am supposed to do. I never saw this coming a year ago. I do not want our four year old to suffer from any of this. I try to put on a smile during the day but the minute my husband comes home, I break down. He used to call me through out the day, these days I get NOTHING from him. I would love for him to but some effort into asking me out for dinner or a movie, like the effort he puts into golfing or bowling or football. I'm so lost, my world has stopped and the only thing that keeps me going is my 4 year old. I feel so guilty for getting pregnant again. I just don't know what to do. In the past I have even suggested married counseling, he refuses and says that I can go by myself. He acts as though he does not want to put forth any type of effort to keep us going. But yet when I ask him if he wants us to end he says know, but a part of me believes he is not being honest. Please help I feel so lonely!!