Originally Posted by LearningAsIGo
I can relate somewhat, I had ovarian cancer when I was 19. I had one ovary removed, but luckily did not require chemo. However, I work with cancer patients and I see what chemotherapy can do to someone.
I can't really answer any of these questions for you, but I can advise you as to what we tell our patients.
Write down all your concerns/questions and schedule another consultation with your doctor.
Ask - which option would you advise if I were your daughter?
- what is the process for harvesting my eggs? (you might want more children later. Bear in mind a hysterectomy would end your chance of bearing more, but chemo is very harsh on ovaries/eggs and could also end your change of concieving naturally, though keeping some eggs "safe" would make your chances better, later on.)
- how advanced is my cancer ?
- would chemo be "a maintenance regimen" or more aggressive? (you may need a more aggressive dose to KILL the cells, you may need a less aggressive dose to help keep them at bay later on)
- Is this possibly hereditary (what are the odds it would come back if I do not get a hysterectomy?)
After what your doctor advises, sit down with your loved ones before you make a decision. In general, this is highly treatable so you want to make the best decision for the future.
Good luck to you, I know this won't be an easy decision to make. {{HUGS}}
P.S. DON'T be afraid to get a second opinion.