Hi I'm kate and I'm 14 , a few months ago I startd hangiing out with this new girl like on of the most popular at school afta a few weeks we became best friends an were relly close then about a week ago she stayed round and we were meant to go shoppiing the next day but my mum didn't leave m any money so I coudnt go,so she went with her mum but that night she wasn't talking to me at all I thought she wz just in a bad mood so left it but the nxt day I called her to see if she was coming out and she ignored my calls so I went out anyway and was with som people when she came walkiin down she said hllo to everyone except me .now I've found out she's been saying things bhind my bak sayiing I'm annoyin and I don't know what to do because she's not talkiing to me and I dontknow why she's falln out with me :mad:

Wow! She's mean!:mad: look I don't think it all started from the day you told her you didn't want to go shopping! No way! That's not a good enough reason. I think she must have been doing this a longtime ago!
She's saying bad things behind your back? o.k! Who told you that? And when was that exactly? Ask them!
Look bestfriends are the people u'v known so well and know everything their past and their news! You can't really consider her as a best friend cz she wasn't what you expected her to be ( so you duno her that well) o.k.. then you were friends! And it turned out that she wasn't a good one! So I advise you to stop thinking about retrieving your friendship with her it's not worth it only if somehow things got different and you got news that all the things people said about her weren't true! So that's why I'm asking you to ask those people what did she exactly say!

But you have to know that you didn't do anything wrong! U just thought she was something but she turned out differently, things happen. It's o.k. ( I'm telling you this cz it happened to me before so it's a life experience thing) but now U just got a new experience out of her!:p don't trust people that easily, be friends with everyone but keep your distance also. Until you find someone you can truly trust and that's when you get yourself a bestfriend:)

I talk too much I know but I hope that what I wrote made sense!:p
Happy to help you in any case:)

Fanx 4 da advice x