Please help... My boyfriend and I broke up and I was hoping someone could give me an idea or two for an amazing romantic gesture... that doesn't cost anything... and that would REALLY fix and help things... I don't want to lose him because he is truly the only guy that really cares... we've been together for over 4 years and I know we can last a LOT longer, but somehow I keep screwing up and playing high school games... I need to get him back... I don't want to live my life without him... Any ideas? Please... I need to get him back -- it is 4 days before he is supposed to fly out here and bring me back with him... Please help me... I don't have any clue what to do... No clue whatsoever... What can I do to win back the love of my life? It hurts so much... I really need everyone's advice... Thank you...

Hi,
You said it; playing high school games.
It's very true that "love hurts", and I'm sorry things aren't working out for you.
All of us have gone through the same thing. I am 63 yrs old, married 28 yrs, happily, and have gone through the same things as a teen.
You will learn eventually what to do and say.
That doesn't help you now, because your boyfriend has decided that he has had enough of the games.
There is nothing you can do, except meet new people; and decide to start beiing honest and truthful, stop playing these games... no one likes them forever. There are many teens who say what they mean, and are honest about it. Games are for kids; but unfortunately adults sometimes play them as well. Start changing, you willl not regret it!!
Best of luck,
fredg

I would go for a candle lit dinner. If you really love him though, just ask yourself this question. Why are you playing games? Maybe your better off without each other. Just think of all of these things. But if you do get him back don't turn around and play more of these games with him or you will lose him for good. Hope this helps