I have a strong want to have a boyfriend, but I'm not desperate. Lately, a few guys have made passes at me and I've denied all of them. Also, I can't seem to even meet anyone that I am remotely interested in. I don't know why I can't find anyone that I would consider dating. :confused: I'm 15 yrs old.

How old are you now?

Don't sweat it. YOU'RE FIFTEEN! Believe me, you have all the time in the world to figure this out and find what works for you. Do any of us really know what we want at that age? A desire for companionship is normal, but it should not take center stage in your life right now. The main thing is to get yourself established as an individual in the world first. Only then can we really have meaningful, fulfilling relationships. Chances are if you're turning these guys down, it's for a good reason. Your deeper instincts are trying to tell you something.