Hey guys... I am 16 and this is not a sex question more of a help question and this is directed toward the girls to... WHY the h***.. do girls always say to me I am like a big brother I mean I am a nice guy.. that's how I was raised.. but then all the a**holes who treat girls like s*** get all the girls, why are the nice guys always undermined completely... I got dumped less then a hour ago... and she said she has no feeling for me and I am like a big brother.. so I am asking... wth is wrong with me that I am rejected by every girl I ask out or get close to.. I am sick of it.. I just want to have one of those old text books romance... like you go out with a girl in 9th and stay with her complete for the rest of there life's.. god it sucks... tell me why all the girls hate me..

Oo and the girl that dumped me I have been pretty good friends with since pre-k I am in 10th now..

Lol I'm considered a big brother to some girls too, I listen to all their problems and if I wanted too I could probably make a move.

Have you ever seen that movie Just Friends? I know its meant to be a comedy but I'm sure its correct. You have to make a move before you are considered just a friend.

Ahh.. but I have tried that before too.. and still nothing... I have done that on many occasions... and nothing.. and I love this girl to I really did.. I have loved her from the 6th grade... when we first went out.. but we stopped due to her father.. but then we try it now.. (plus she is all I can think about) and now she feels nothing from me...

Well either she will realize she needs you or not. If she doesn't need you then she is not for you.

That is the very best way to be--to be able to be friends with females. You know how to please them, they trust you, you know how to listen, you know how to make them happy. Sure, right now they will chase the hunks and the jocks and the "bad boys", but just you wait. Keep pleasing and listening and making them happy. They will be back when they grow up, or new ones will realize (after bad experiences) just how perfect you are. Clean up your language and that will make you extra-perfect! Just be patient.

I only use the lang in the post.. due to the anger that inside me.. I am on the verg of hitting a wall... I love her I really do.. and she doesn't.. wow.. love sucks for me..

Well, anger doesn't give you the right to use that kind of language. Show what a smart guy you are by using the appropriate language instead of &*%^ and #@*% which shows a weak mind.

So get yourself busy. Is school in session yet where you live? Get involved in your classes and homework and meeting more kids at school. Get involved in an organization or two. Go out for sports, like volleyball or tennis. Learn stuff and be a cool, desirable guy -- not a one-note Johnny who only knows how to be angry and swear. That sure won't attract the kind of girl you want in your life.

Fine OK w.e I don't cuss all time and most of it I did on comp so you..

Now, start posting in good English and impress all of us mothers out here so we will want you to marry one of our daughters.

Are you going to get involved at school? Are you going to be good to yourself?

The probably say your like a big brother because your nice but have no sexual edge?

I don't mean this as in your not going to be sexually attractive to some girls , Girls like nice guys but the reason girls like a** h***s is because they have a lot of edge. The trick is finding the right balance.

By edge I mean showing you have some testosterone in you, be charming , witty , basically don't change too much but adding asexy remark once in a while will get you noticed more in "that way".

E.g.
In stead of saying "you look cute in that dress" say "you look absolutely gorgeous in that dress ".

Changing the way you say things or start saying things you would otherwise not say like "Wow, your beautiful" will really get girls attentions - girls want a guy who thinks the world of them fyi!

Also dry humour is a big turn on ( for me at least ) saying something witty will give you what I called "The edge".

You don't have to be a angry brute just make the way you interact a bit more sexy, NOT TOO MUCH, seriously do not try too hard. You will look pathetic. A little comment every now and then.

I agree with everything Wondergirl says on this thread...
Listen to her Slayandkill:)

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I was trying to give you a greenie Wondergirl,but seems I have been giving you too many,had to spread the rep.;)