Hey guys,
I haven't been around here for awhile, I don't know why.

Anyway, once again I'm certianed about my best friend, Nick. Here's the thing, about a month ago (probably earlier) he has been acting differntly with me like he's not my best friend anymore. Yes, I mess with him in certain times. We barley even talk to each other anymore though and when we do he's just, like I said... differnt with me, this has happened to me before. You see, about 3 years or so ago before Nick and I met, I once had a best friend named 'Tony' who I've known ever since I started using the computer which was 7 years ago I think because I remember using a computer for a very long time. Tony and I though has stopped chatting all of the sudden, he also became a 'gangster' kind of person, he wasn't one while I knew him. But this became like that we don't even know each other anymore which I'm not happy with, with losing my first best friend. And I don't want to lose my 'brother' Nick. I'm real worried about this, is it me why he's acting like this or what?

Please reply to this if you can, so I can get an idea why he's doing it.

Thanks a lot.
~Garrett~

I don't know if this is the problem or not but here goes... I have had several close friends. At some point in time we either don't talk as much or stop talking all together. This one girl that I was super close with all of a sudden stopped accepting my phone calls. I gave her an invitation to my son's first birhtday party, and I haven't seen or heard from her since. My son is 2 now. What I am getting at is sometimes peoples interest in life changes, they meet new people, they start doing new things and they eventually weed out people who don't fit into their new world. It's called growing up. Don't take it so hard, you too will meet new people and start doing new things and sooner or later you will notice that you and your world are different. I hope this helps.

Hi,
As the old saying goes, "friends come and go"; very, very true.
Your best friends have now gone on to do and act without you; whatever the reasons are, it's probably them, not you.
Meet new people, and you will make new friends.
Be yourself, treat others with respect, and don't lie to them about anything. You will find another close friend.
Best of luck,
fredg