All my friends have boyfriends and true genuine best friend I've only had one boyfriend before I didn't work out so good I've never been kissed all my friends have its annoying all I want to have is a normal social life I don't know anyone who like me as more than a friend right now and I have no real person I can about everything too and its real getting to me now that my family is going threw problems I feel so alone and I'm sick of it I can never get a hold of the friends I have cause I'm so buisy and I feels so cut off to the out side world what should I do

Get involved with school activities, they will get you noticed, and allow you to take your mind off family problems for a while. Clubs, sports, activities, even a class you like, just get involved.

A simple way to get noticed by a guy you like is to make eye contact, and simply smile! :)

Hey babe, I no exactly how you feel.. all you can do is get out with your mates and let your hair down.. it always make you feel better when you perfect your make up until you feel pretty then go with mates on a boy hunt..
Good luck xx

I isn't allowed to were make up or most stuff my friends can do cause according to my prarents there older than me cause there 13 and I'm 12 and those few months make them so much mature than me so I can't do little things that people my age or a little older do

Hey, having a bf/gf at 12 isn't such great thing
Don't worry, a guy will come along in time, you'll be with him, you'll break his heart or he will break your heart, then one or both of you will chuck a sad, then you'll each find a new person, until you end up with the perfect guy for you, etc
Just don't worry, be confident, hold your head up high, look people in the eyes, smile at them, be yourself, be honest!
And be patient, don't rush things, and don't be afraid of rejection/break up, because its worth it.

Cals right yo don't need a boyfriend at 12 or 13. I didn't have a boyfriend until I was 19! Guess what, I don't regret it at all, I missed nothing except a bit of teenage messiness.

Seriously you are missing out on nothing. Concentrate on your schoolwork, social activities, get out there and have a life.

I spent my teenage years playing guitar and painting not mooning over some spotty boy who hadn't called me yet. I am much more well rounded for it now.

Your mum is right, 12 is too young for makeup it looks awful on people your age, really bad. You don't need it anyway. Here's the thing about makeup, women wear it to try and look younger!

You don't need it until teenage spots kick in and then concealer is a mercy of being female.

Please don't get down about this you are really not missing out on anything, you have another 70 odd years to wear makeup and stress about boyfriends. You are only allowed to make yourself sick eating a bucket of sweets, dress like a carnival fell on you and run for no reason (whilst still retaining dignity) once. Don't jump to the next page too soon.

I recently met this guy he's like 4 years older than me he's nice and is going out with one of my friends he said he would probably go out with me if he wasn't so intrested in his girlfriends but I have one problem another one of my friends is in love with him and that's all she's intrested in talking about its almost scary I'm starting to like him but I don't want to cause two of my friends like him this is just to crazy

Hey, I don't have any friends at all. Not 1. I have a boyfriend though but he doesn't want to kiss and hug or any of that and I'm not 100% sure he even cares much about me. Don't feel bad. When the right person comes along he will be glad that you haven't been with a bunch of people. I'm guessing your still pretty young and a relationship that you would be in now probably wouldn't last too long. And guys don't seem to like it too much when they are with a girl that has been with a lot of people before them. Your not the only one out there that doesn't have a boyfriend. I know a girl that I usd to be friends with, she's almost 17 and has never kissed, hugged or even went out with a guy. Don't worry. Sooner or later you will. A lot of good things in life usually take a lot of time and I'm sure your friends won't all stay with their boyfriend for too long and they'll move on to someone else and guys don't really like that. At least most guy's don't seem to like that.

He is too old for you. You are rushing ahead of yourself. You have your whole life to have a boyfriend and all that entails. You are only 13 once don't waste it pretending to be 16 and failing.

This is not the answer, it will only cause problems.

Do you have any adults you can talk to? A teacher or a club leader? You are looking for answers and affection in the wrong place. It will only end in you being taken advantage of and hurt.

Please look out for yourself and slow down

Right now that 16 year old guy is only my friend amazlingly we have more in common than most of the guys I've like I don't really want to go out with him cause I'm in 8th grade he's a junior in high school I'll only see him 1 year in high school me and my good guy friends are finally being able to talk to each other more espitaly cause schools starting tomorrow

Have faith in you.. I mean when you dress up and stuff look at the mirror and feel sexy on your own
I mean when you walk past some guys wink at them that's what gets the guys besides long legs and exposed body parts smile and wink
And you got it