How do I file for a dissolution without an attorney and how do I find out how to find out the costs for filing?

Sounds like you're in a rush to get out of something that you took the time to get into which the marriage. I don't know how long you've been married for what's going on him, but I would recommend seeking to resolve the issue, because that's what it is something that you both can't deal with right now. You found out how to get married. Now, you just need to find out how to get reconciled not divorced. Just my opinion, maybe not your answer.