I've been with my boyfriend for almost 6 months, he's very insecure because of past relationships & has broken my heart for the 3rd time, but I can't help running back because I love him so much. He says I don't listen to him & don't understand what he wants. He really hates it when other males talk to me, but I've been trying to avoid it. What do I do? How do I get him back again?

Please help!

You walk away from this. He is punishing you for the sins of others. I'm presuming you have done nothing in this relationship to make him question your loyalty It sounds as if this guy is carrying a lot of baggage and for that there is nothing that you can do. He has to unload the baggage on his own.

If he isn't over these past relationships and keeps mistreating you then you need to walk away and stay away. Every time that you go back to him all that says to him is "I like it when you treat me horribly. you can tell me all sorts o bad things about myself that aren't true and I'll never leave. fling all of your past baggage upon me!!!".

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has broken my heart for the 3rd time,

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Haven't you heard 3 strikes your out! Can't you see the pattern as Glinda pointed out. Ain't that much love in the world for you to take his crap. This is not love!! This is not healthy for you.

Be yourself and walk away or be the construct of others and pay a very high price. Good Luck.

But I know he still loves me, because he still gets mad when I run to his place at night, even though he tells me not to, he says it's dangerous. That's what he means by me not listening to him. He gets jealous easily, but I just don't understand why he would push me away even more if he's scared to lose me?

Maybe he's a bit paranoid or suffer from past psychological problems regarding "security". Or maybe he has some "trust" issue. You've been together for 6 months only, which isn't much time to have full and blind trust in some way, in my opinion.
How do you handle it when some guys approach you? Maybe the way you handle things don't make him feel so comfortable and fears that you might cheat on him?

I'm not trying to put the blame on you, obviously he has self-esteem problems, but if you two are really in love, some help/effert from you wouldn't hurt. If it doesn't change, you will dump him sooner or later without anyone telling you.

Is this someone you really want back? You yourself describe him as "insecure" and it sounds like he's very immature as well. Frankly I'd forget about him and go in search of greener pastures.