Hypothetical question that sprung to mind:

You've broken up/ on a break with your girlfriend. You do the whole 2 months of no contact... but she doesn't contact you either. Is it worth it to even bother sending her a message after 2 months on how she's doing, or is it just a waste of your time?

It depends on how you feel - see, she has to be the love of your life.

AND your break up should not have been bad, meaning no cheating, abuse, etc.

Also - have you changed? Did you figure out what may have turned her off?

IF you have not made in contact in two months and the above applies - send a simple e-mail if she has e-mail saying:

"Hi, how are you? I wanted to see how you were doing? Everything is great here. Take care, ----"

No pressure, no dumb questions, absolutely no relatinship questions, no date questions.

IF she doesn't respond after 4 days - send one more ans say something funny.

Wait a 10 days - try a call. BUT THAT WOULD BE it if she doesn't respond.

Sometimes woman are way to prideful to contact you.

Do what you feel like doing...

My ex contacted me a few times, lately she has been saying how much she's misses me and such. I think it's worth a shot, I mean if she turns you down, she turns you down. At least you will know and can move on.

I always like to know, but at the same time take a hint. If you call someone 3 times and she never calls you back, she doesn't want to talk to you.

Yes - please no stalking.

She had to have been a pretty significant love and you had OR her could NOT have done something major to cause the break.

ALSo, again, you have to change.