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What can I do to help my boyfriend last longer in bed?

You could tell him to masturebate before having sex

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Originally Posted by gabby66

What can I do to help my boyfriend last longer in bed??

I know from experience that pre-sex masturbation does NOT work. Once the guy masturbates and finishes, it takes about 10 minutes (atleast) to have them get "back up". That's even if your man can go for more than one round (which it is known a lot of men can't). Not only that, but while your waiting those minutes to have him be back up and ready, you yourself might be losing the mood. A lot of men aren't comfortable with masturbating in front of others (even their partner) and any other form of gratification for a male to achieve that first initial orgasm might result in him being satisfied and not wanting a 2nd round.
Granted, all men are different, and hey, it MIGHT work for you, but it's a slim chance.. I'm actually going through the same thing, and I'd give my man oral sex or a "hand job" before trying to have actual intercourse, and once that initial orgasm is reached for them, most of the time that's it.

Masturbation without climax,sounds like a tease but it will train the mind to lasting longer,I have experienced this and it worked for me.

They make a cream that you can rub on the man a few minutes before having sex that helps. I have used it, and it works... at least for me. The only downside to it, is it kind of makes the penis numb so it may not feel as good, that may depend on the person though.

While having sex, change positions often. If you can tell he is about to orgasm, change the tempo, change the position, change anything. It will hold him off :)

How old are you?

Have a lot of foreplay before having sex, it will get you more aroused and make it seem not so "Short"! Also, try some toys.. they have rings you can put around the base of the penis and it will prevent blood flow, which will make him last longer!

Don't worry, or give up this happens to a lot of couples!

I think you ask your boyfried to read the stuff which teach them to hold ejaculation , through which he can hold himself inside you for longer time, which you both will enjoy, it worked with us

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Originally Posted by dustndawn

I know from experience that pre-sex masturbation does NOT work. Once the guy masturbates and finishes, it takes about 10 minutes (atleast) to have them get "back up". That's even if your man can go for more than one round (which it is known a lot of men can't). Not only that, but while your waiting those minutes to have him be back up and ready, you yourself might be losing the mood. A lot of men aren't comfortable with masturbating in front of others (even their partner) and any other form of gratification for a male to achieve that first initial orgasm might result in him being satisfied and not wanting a 2nd round.
Granted, all men are different, and hey, it MIGHT work for you, but its a slim chance.. I'm actually going thru the same thing, and I'd give my man oral sex or a "hand job" before trying to have actual intercourse, and once that initial orgasm is reached for them, most of the time that's it.

Actually, most of that isn't true.
My boyfriend can last for [the most we've tried] three times. Usually if we want it to last longer, he masturbates before && still has a boner afterwards.

But I guess it depends on the person..

Masturbation works it's about when you do it. If he can't go again in a few minutes have him do it a few hours before hand.