Hi,I had written before also about my prob in marriage with my hubby.. I had gone for holidays to my parents place with my kids and I can't seem to come to terms when it comes to trusting my hubby after what all he did which I had mentioned in my earlier mail.. I often wonder why can't he be himself with me after 15 yrs of marriage?he won't tell me anything if I don't ask him and when I ask he`ll tell me few details or if he is watching some nude scene on TV he`ll immediately change the channel the min I enter the room.. this hurts me more because I know he like to watch all that stuff then why is he still hiding when I`ve told him to be open with me in everything.. im very confused and don't know what to do.

It may be he do not want to make you feel uncomfortable or feel bad in yourself. My fiancé tells me if there is happy news but he do not want to tell any sad moment. Also he do not want to get upset front to me. He thinks I will be upset too. I understood him when I know about this. Try to talk to him

Hi Sharmi
Thanks for your ans but to understand my prob you should read my 1st ques posted here and I guess after your ead it mayb u`ll c things more clearly and understand why am I saying so.. thnks once again

Sounds like he has A porn addiction and doesn't want you to know how serious it is. I could be wrong but that's what it sound's like, If it's the truth that's A real problem do you check your computer's browser history recycle bin etc.

Sounds to me like a porn addict as well, and it could also be he's cheating. You cannot make a man love you if he doesn't. This will only drag you down. Ask him if he will do some counseling with you, if he refuses, get some for yourself.
I wish you well.

Sometimes when someone has hurt you badly it takes forever to trust them again, and sometimes in your mind you do want to trust them again but you are scared that you will end up hurt and dissapointed again, well at least that's how I feel. Maybe you should tell your husband how you feel. One cannot fully love someone if you don't trust them