Originally Posted by alkalineangel
please be aware that it can take quite some time after coming off the shot to conceive...as much as two years sometimes...I would suggest start eating healthy now. take in lots of vitamin C and calcium and folic acid. try to ditch the soft drinks now, so it will be easier when you do get pregnant.
I would suggest, however, to be absolutely sure that you both want children before going through with it, otherwise one person may hold it against the other one. It would also be easier to get married first. If you choose not to get married, file for child support immediately even if you are together and live together, so that its taken care of in case things dont work out...children are hard on reltionships...sometimes even the strong ones dont make it.