I have a 13 year of daughter from a previous marriage. I have been married for over 9 years now to my husband, my ex-husband has not attempted contact in over 8 years and I have never, never received any child support. I have not attempted, because my ex-husband was very abusive and even after my divorce he still came around with guns stating he was going to kill me. I have never really tried to do much, I just wanted him out of my life and away. Now, my daughter is 13 and wants her name the same as mine, my husband and our other two daughters. What can I do, I do believe my ex-husband has moved to La. What can I do, to change take away his parental rights, so my husband can now take care of her, should something happen to me? :confused: