I am 25 and I am ready to get married and start a family of my own. My boyfriend is 22 and says he is to young. We have our differences, but we love each other very much. I'm unsure what to do. I love him, but is he really to young or is he just not that into me?

If you have a good relationship then please don't start doubting his love for you. Take him at his word. It sounds like he knows himself well and recognizes he is just not ready for all the responsibilities that marriage will bring. Keep enjoying each other's company. When he is ready, he will let you know.

If he wasn't that into you he wouldn't be with you. Believe him when he says he's too young. I got married at 19, my husband was 20 at the time and I thought we were ready, but we are realizing that waiting never hurt anything. Your b/f will let you know when the time is right but if the relationship is good now what difference will a piece of paper make? Enjoy your relationship as it is.

Hello.

I agree with him your both to young. OK before you start saying how mature you are lets be honest. Do you both work and have an income that can not only support each other but the high cost of a baby. Have you achieved your education dreams, your traveling dreams, your partying dreams.

If your ready now you will be able to build a much better life a few years from now, If your as mature as you think you are you would already know this (wink) so slow down and build for the future first.

Dennis777

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Originally Posted by Samijo25

I am 25 and I am ready to get married and start a family of my own. My boyfriend is 22 and says he is to young. We have our differences, but we love eachother very much. I'm unsure what to do. I love him, but is he really to young or is he just not that into me?

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He's not ready to marry you, 9 times out of ten he won't marry you. You don't want to bully him
Into marriage. Marriage is a real commitment, thing's will change when you get married. You can walk away from the relationship if it doesn't work now, but if you marry you have to divorce. Don't fall in love with the idea of a wedding, know that marriage is a commitment even when you don't want to be married anymore.