Me and my boyfriend was going for about 1 year and a half and lately we werent the same.he's looking at other females in my presents,going out more often,he curses and listens to disrespecting songs while around me what is the best thing to do?i talk to him about it but he always has an excuse for his actions we are struggling with our trust because of problems in the past, but i love him but i need to kno if this is a green sign to let go before i get hurt any worst than i already have

So, do you want mr. Right - or Mr. Right Now....?

It takes practice. Keep practicing. This guy sounds like he's not too respectful.

1) I will say that a guy looking at other girls is not that unusual, but if he acts like you are not there, that's not good.
2) MUSIC is normal too
3) Cursing happens

But my guess in 1-3 he is doing it in not a nice, respectful way - if so... have the guts to walk...

If you want mr. Right, have the guts to let him go. It will make him act right and/or you can find someone better. Love can be a drug we get addicted to that takes us down. If you want Love without the nasty side-effects, look for someone who treats you right. I will separate you from the crowd and help you find a great guy faster... Really.